Going Crazy!

I love my husband but I absolutely cannot stand his mother and a couple of his brothers.  They are needy and constantly leech of my husband every chance that they get.  It drives me crazy because he can't see it. I had a baby 3 months ago and my mother in law never even showed up to the baby shower.  When she finally did come to see our baby she said that he was different and told me to have him checked for ADHD!  Who says that about a baby? Then the whole time she made inapprpriate comments about how attractive she thinks her own son is. She only calls when she wants something and jeopardizes my husband's time for hours on the phone.

As for as the brothers go, one is in jail, and the other can't get his life straight and is now living with us! I told my husband that I was ok with the idea at first, but now I really regret my decision. I feel tapped in my own home!  I stay trapped in bedroom and only come out when the brother isn't around.  His brother is 27 years old and has no plans on growing up.  He has a wife an two children that he just abandoned and now we are stuck with him! He sits here and quotes Bible scriptures and does Kung Fu all day.  Is that strange to anyone else?  I asked him what he plans  on doing after his time is up with us and his answer was that he was going to live in his car!  Really?!  I am going crazy!  What can I do?  I love my husband and would do anything to make him happy, but I just don't think it should be at the expense of my feeling uncomforatble in my own home.  I believe that it is impotant to help out family, but I do believe that people have to help themselves too! 
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1 Response May 6, 2012

Your wife abandoning brother in law quotes scripture? Hypocrite! Quote him 2 Thessalonians 3:10 "If anyone does not want to work, neither let him eat" . Remember it's YOUR home. All the best.