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Faithful Wives Please Help!!! I Need You

HE'S CHEATING ON YOU----WITH ME. BUT--WHO IS THE "OTHER WOMAN??" I'VE HAD HIM, KNOWN HIM, BEEN TALKING TO, HOLDING, & SLEEPING WITH HIM, FOR YEARS BEFORE YOU EVER MET HIM. SO, WHO IS THE OTHER WOMAN??? HE HAS BEEN DOING THIS TO ME FOR YEARS. I'M NOT A ***** OR BOOTY CALL. I KNOW HIS HOPES, DREAMS, FEARS, NEEDS, LOSSES, TEARS, PRAYERS. I KNOW EVERY MUSCLE ON HIS BODY, HOW IT HURTS, WHAT HE DID TO MAKE IT SORE, & HOW TO FIX IT. I KNOW EVERY LOOK, FLASH, MOVE HIS EYES CAN MAKE.

I KNOW HE LOVES YOU---BUT, AFTER SO MANY YEARS, HE MUST LOVE ME TOO. I DESPERATELY LOVE HIM--I ALWAYS HAVE---STUPIDLY, PAINFULLY, & YES HOPELESSLY. FROM THE FIRST MOMENT I SAW HIM, I LOVED HIM. & I HAVEN'T HAD A CHOICE SINCE. BEFORE YOU THINK I'M A *****, REMEMBER YOU FELL FOR HIM TOO. YOU LOST YOURSELF IN HIS BRILLIANT EYES, & FELL FOR EVERYTHING THOSE PRECIOUS LIPS SAY. & ALL THAT TIME, & ALL THE TIME SINCE, HE'S BEEN MAKING YEARS OF LOVE TO ME.

I'M MAD. I DONT THINK HE SHOULD GET AWAY WITH IT ANYMORE. BUT, YOU ARE SO YOUNG IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM & NAIVE. HOW MANY YEARS HAVE YOU BEEN WITH HIM NOW? I CAN BEAT IT IN MULTIPLES. IF TRY TO TELL YOU, YOU WILL ASK HIM, & HE WILL, OF COURSE DENY IT, WITH THOSE GORGEOUS EYES. & YOU WILL BELIEVE HIM. THEN, HE WILL COME AT ME. & HE WILL HURT ME. I KNOW YOU DON'T THINK SO. I LEARNED---BUT, THAT WAS YEARS AGO. DON'T WORRY--HE WON'T HURT YOU. AS LONG AS HE CAN KEEP ME, & MY YEARS OF HISTORY, & CURRENT LOVEMAKING, WITH HIM QUIET, HE CAN AND WILL REMAIN------

ALWAYS,
YOUR LOVING HUSBAND

SO, WHAT DO I DO??????
hecheatswithme hecheatswithme 36-40 4 Responses Aug 2, 2011

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Before I got married... I was the other woman once and had no idea until it was too late. He was plalying us both, but I was blindsided by the fiance calling asking if he was with me and she was furious and devistated. I stood my ground, told her everything... even though she did not want to hear it. I never saw him again, but I kept the lines of communication open to her to try and support her in her decision of working things out with him or being strong enough to leave him.<br />
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I'm pretty sure my husband is cheating currently or has cheated in the past. I really wish someone would have the guts to let me know what was really up so that I could at least make an informed decision on how I wanted to proceed. Right now, as things are, I just feel that there is no starting point to turn things around, fix it, whatever...<br />
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Maybe I just need to accept it as it sounds like the wife in your situation has come to ...

Up at 12 am in the morning posting your mental illnesses. Honey get a grip, that isn't love it's stupidity and the lack of self worth. You're clearly delusional if you think that man loves you. You see the mentally ill often twist what's fact and what's fiction. The reality of your situation is that he has a control issue and he probably married someone else because she doesn't display any traits or minimum traits of I don't know, maybe staying in a realtionship that is mentally and emotional abusive. Maybe she appears to be stronger, a little more grounded and everything you should aspire to be. Get a back bone and a hobbie, you've been wasting your time for years allowing this man to use you and abuse you and still the title belongs to someone else, and if the REAL WIFE knows about you and she allows him to keep you then clearly all three of you deserve each other, but if you or anyone like you come near my husband it will be hell to pay. Imma treat you like the piece of trash your are. Get ya mind right, move on.

Why would you want to be second best? Where is your self esteem? Why stay in a situation that has no future? He obviously doesn't love you if he married someone else. You need to get out of this ****** up relationship! And he is abusive on top of it. Use your head woman! Open your eyes and see that he is using you and not worthy of your love! I'm not trying to be mean, but what the **** are you thinking?

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