Truly, Madly, Deeply....aaaaaah :)

I was married for 6 years to a man I despised.  It was a horrible decision on both parts.  But the man I REALLY loved had left the country and was seeing someone else.  I decided anyone was better than no one (Man was I WRONG!)  And married the first guy who asked. 

Flash forward 8 years later, and my first love calls me out of the blue.  Everything is going wrong and he needs to talk.  I'm the first person who comes to his mind.  That was February 2009.  We were engaged in April and Married in August.  After all those years apart, we decided there was no reason to waste any more time.  

It amazes me how people really rally against you when you're happy.  They love to tell you horror stories about their own husbands and how much they despise them.  They ask questions just trying to get you to say something negative.  My boss actually asked me, "So what doesn't he do well?  What are his weaknesses?  What drives you crazy?"  I have been there people.  I was in a miserable marriage and hated my husband with a passion.  I don't ever want to be in that situation again, so I did not venture into this relationship lightly.  

So glad to see all of you here!!  Many happy years to all of you!

jdm831 jdm831
31-35, F
1 Response Mar 16, 2010

I wish you years on happiness. I can relate to your story whole-heartedly. It's not an easy process but I can only say on my end every day I spend with the one I love was worth the time it took for him to find me and me to find myself. Sounds cheese-y but it makes sense for me. Lol. I hope you have a good day and peaceful rest of the week. =)