My Father In Law Past;(

THe baby thing changed and so has my life my father in law past and now everything has changed i considered a divorce now. MY husband has blamed me for coming taking his relatiiohp from his dad along with other things that should never been said that man was a great man an i thought fof him as a father. my father in law came by one day me and all the kids were there he came in stayed for a monent and when he got up he gave me a bag filled with coins i told him no keep them he collects them just as my dad did and he told me NO i want you to have them. He said dont say anything just take them and put them with the other ones you have of your dads so i did. Well when everyone went looking around in his stuff the coins were talked about and i said he give them to me instead of everyone looking for them.I gave them back. I had to take my sone to chemo and after coming back my husband an i had a talk a long one I thought that was going to be about our marriage but it was all about it dad. I said i should give the coins to his wife and so i called her and she was rude and said i should have told her she was going to give it to his boys and she hug up. Well i give them to my husband instead and told him i tried to give them to him before when they were asking and looking but he would not take them now and really dont want to be with my husband anymore he has said things and never been there in many ways for me with the kids and the baby i lost and now just because his dad went with me and times go and stay with my soni n the hospital while chemo. I dont understand other than i need to do something im going out of my mind!!!!! my youngest son toldme he is leaving as soon as he gets old engouht because of my husband what shoud i do:???????? i love my kiids and his