I have no doubt in my mind that this man is the elusive "one". And, I know he feels the same way about me. Now, after that being said.. I'm a 25 year old female that was always weary of having a family until I knew it was absolutely right.
We decided to start a family and that it was time about a week before he deployed to Afghanistan. I made the choice to wait until his deployment was finished to begin the whole process (November 2010). I sometimes feel a bit selfish (although I know he understands - I didn't want to go through 7 months of the 9 month pregnancy alone although I know it is done quite often by military spouses)
Now my question is - Was it selfish on my part to want to wait? Should I feel guilty?