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Need It More Than Want It

The desire I have to give my husband excellent oral has become an obsession for me. I have been trying to suck him until he ********** in my mouth but it hasn't happened yet and for that reason I believe im not doing it to his liking. Unless his tolerance or sex drive is super high.. he needs to allow me more practice time with him..
Kream19 Kream19 26-30, F 42 Responses Jul 25, 2012

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Perhaps your husband should
consult a urologist.

How can he not ***? Very odd.

You can practice on me

I love a good blow job as much as the next guy but for whatever reason I generally do not come from it. Sure once in awhile I will but usually I don't. So maybe I've been getting bad bj's for years?

Wow! That's hot! Your story made me hard!

you're such a good wife. try just licking up and down along the underside of his shaft and nibble it as though eating an ear of corn.

actually I'm single now... my husband left me for a 21 yr old prostitute

That´s sad. But you´re always welcum to visit me...

LOVE and RESPECT from The Netherlands.

There's no such thing as a bad
b lowjob, unless you make it hurt. Just a hot wet warm mouth sucking my ****, will reward you with a load of hot ***.

since you dont require extra outstanding head service to keep you happy so I imagine you get sum head day and night

I get it when I want it, and love the feeling. I *** more with head than anything else.

that's a first for

hey miss.... i would love to talk to you.. would you?

As others have to him & ask what he likes....all men like different types of stimulation.....most would luv a woman that wanted to "practice".

I could *** in your mouth then I would kiss u

Not really, I was always hard to get to *** that way. I was never much into my getting oral but I do enjoy it. I just love ***** to much and the mental knowing I'm in the ***** really turns me on.
Sometimes that is why oral is so good though. I get that ongoing stimulation with out the overwhelming urge to *** which can be so frustrating for men. We don't want to *** so fast, just can't help it sometimes.
Have him ********** for you. It needs to be probably harder and faster than you realize.
I have only met one woman who really is good at it, my massage therapist I have now but we have progressed to full sex now.

I agree with you Ray. BJ is good, but I don't come from it yet. Doing oral on her instead seems more fun to me. Making her come is super awesome! Making her want it so bad. Making her squirm and moan.

Use your tongue on the back of the head, It's super sensitive and he'll reward you with a nice big load and have a fantastic ******. He'll be so happy with you he'll want it again and again and very often.

sounds like he has issues with it.

Thanks for sharing with us .Talk to him. Tell him you want him to *** in your mouth. He may actually be holding back thinking that if he **** in your mouth he may not be able to *** the second time right away for you or that you would be upset if he **** in your mouth. Talk and discuss your wants and needs. Sex is always better when you both understand what turns on and satisfies each other. don't worry too much about doing it right or wrong. If you have him in your mouth and you love pleasing your man with your mouth you are farther along than a lot of women. Enjoy the learning curve……. Please keep us updated as the adventure continues.

The more you practice the better you will beCUM!

First...Talk to him!
Does he consider oral sex foreplay only? He may think *********** in your vagina more pleasureable, however, if he unserstands your desire to please him orally or even that you really enjoy oral and want him to ********* for your pleasure, he may very well go along.

Bottom line....Communication usually solves most all problems between people.

Talk to him. :)

damn!.....try me? hehehe


what a lucky guy.. I wish i had that

I wish he knew how much I love to suck his ****

He doesn't know what he's missing! The feeling of ******* in a woman's mouth is one of the most exquisite experiences I can think of, and having a woman who is willing to do that makes for a very lucky man. Keep trying til you get it right, sounds more like a problem with him than with you. Have you tried asking him what he likes and what feels good to him?

well its been so long since we have been with each other.. almost a year, if we get back together then i'll ask him

god i love Oral. finding a female who can do it right is epic lol

hopefully im epic!!! lol

your husband doesnt think so? any head is good head!

im not married yet.. this is what I desire to do with my future husband

k. doesnt ur man this ur epic?

im single.. haven't performed oral sex in 8 months

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Some guys just have a hard time ******* from oral. It sure is fun to try!

would love the chance to try again

Yes. Try, try try again.
Tried to add you but couldn't.

well before I can try again... I first have to have someone

You can practice on me.

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guess you were doing it the wrong way, you need to practice more.

with who?

its your choice, but prefer that he should have good experience

I dont know where he is.. and i havent tried to call him, he doesnt answer my calls or respond to my text messages so maybe he is simply not interested in me anymore

It took me a long time to be to ********* into someones mouth , if you had ask me before what was the problem I might have said its her technique but the truth was it was me . I had to learn to relax .

I like you kream19 for your comments because you are the type of woman I need, someone who is very hairy and I like the fact that you like giving head.

I wish I had a woman like you who would blow me off real good

I thought you weren't married???...

u can pactice on me if u like...see my pics and let me know

God, what I would give for my wife to maybe not be obsessed with it, but at least enjoy it a little. Of course at this point, I would love for her to just touch it once in a while, even if by accident. lol

poor guy, why your wife dont give you great oral?

My wife doesn't give me anything. Been like that for the past 9 years. But even before that, she was never that into giving head even though I love going down on her.

oh i see now

my tolerance is sky high and my wife can suck all she wants and nuthin. maybe you gotta **** him til he's just about to blow and go down and get it.

Great Advice.. I can give this a try oneday