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Don't missinterpret this, I really enjoy giving;however, my wife takes forever to reach *******. I need a few pointers before I need jaw reconstruction. Usually, it can take an excess of an hour to hour and a half non-stop. I ask her if I'm doing everything alright and she just says yes, fine. Is this amount of time normal or do I need some serious tips. Also, "fine" just doesn't seem like a mind blowing adjective. 

I'd be forever indebted to someone that could help me! 


deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Nov 18, 2007

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Has she had her **** examined by her OBGYN? In some cases the skin over the **** is not retracting the why it should. Kind of like a real tight foreskin on your ****. Easily corrected by her Dr.

Here is a description from a web site I found that explains almost exactly how I love my ***** eaten - <br />
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HOW TO EAT ***** Written by unknown.<br />
Hey, I have a lot of respect for all you guys who like to eat ***** because there are too few of you out there. And I'm not the only woman who says this. Furthermore, some of you guys who are giving it the old college try are not doing too well, so maybe this little lesson will help you out.<br />
When a woman finds a man who gives good head, she's found a treasure she's not going to let go of too quickly. This is one rare customer and she knows it. She won't even tell her girlfriends about it or that guy will become the most popular man in town. So, remember, most guys can ****, and those who can usually do it satisfactorily, but the guy who gives good head, he's got it made.<br />
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Most women are shy about their bodies. Even if you've got the world's most gorgeous woman in bed with you, she's going to worry about how you like her body. Tell her it's beautiful, tell her which parts you like best, tell her anything, but get her to trust you enough to let you down between her legs. Now stop and look at what you see.<br />
Beautiful, isn't it?<br />
There is nothing that makes a woman more unique than her *****. I know. I've seen plenty of them. They come in all different sizes, colors and shapes; some are tucked inside like a little girl's cunnie and some have thick luscious lips that come out to greet you. Some are nested in brushes of fur and others are covered with transparent fuzz. Appreciate your woman's unique qualities and tell her what makes her special. Women are a good deal more verbal than men, especially during love-making. They also respond more to verbal love, which means, the more you talk to her, the easier it will be to get her off. So all the time you're petting and stroking her beautiful *****, talk to her about it. Now look at it again. Gently pull the lips apart and look at her inner lips, even lick them if you want to. Now spread the tops of her ***** up until you can find her ****. Women have clits in all different sizes, just like you guys have different sized *****. It doesn't mean a thing as far as her capacity for ******. All it means is more of her is hidden underneath her foreskin.<br />
Whenever you touch a woman's *****, make sure your finger is wet. You can lick it or moisten it with juices from inside her. Be sure, by all means, to wet it before you touch her **** because it doesn't have any juices of it's own and it's extremely sensitive. Your finger will stick to it if it's dry and that hurts.<br />
But you don't want to touch her **** anyway. You have to work up to that. Before she becomes aroused, her **** is too delicate to be handled. Approach her ***** slowly.<br />
Women, even more so than men, love to be teased. The inner part of her thigh is her most tender spot. Lick it, kiss it, make designs on it with the tip of your tongue. Come dangerously close to her *****, then float away. Make her anticipate it. Now lick the crease where her leg joins her *****. Nuzzle your face into her bush. Brush your lips over her slit without pressing down on it to further excite her. After you've done this to the point where your lady is bucking up from her seat and she's straining to get more of you closer to her, then put your lips right on top of her slit. Kiss her, gently, then harder. Now use your tongue to separate her ***** lips and when she opens up, run your tongue up and down between the la<x>yers of ***** flesh. Gently spread her legs more with your hands. Everything you do with a woman you're about to eat must be done gently. Tongue-**** her. This feels define. It also teases the hell out of her because by now she wants some attention given to her ****.<br />
Check it out.<br />
See if her **** has gotten hard enough to peek out of it's covering. If so, lick it. If you can't see it, it might still be waiting for you underneath. So bring your tongue up tot he top of her slit and feel for her ****. You may barely experience it's presence. But even if you can't feel the tiny pearl, you can make it rise by licking the skin that covers it.<br />
Lick hard now and press into her skin. Gently pull the ***** lips away and flick your tongue against the ****, hood covered or not. Do this quickly. This should cause her legs to shudder. When you sense she's getting up there toward ******, make your lips into an O and take the **** into your mouth. Start to suck gently and watch your lady's face for her reaction. If she can handle it, begin to suck harder. If she digs it, suck even harder.<br />
Go with her. If she lifts her pelvis into the air with the tension of her rising ******, move with her, don't fight her. Hang on, and keep your hot mouth on her ****. Don't let go. That's what she'll be saying too: 'Don't stop. Don't ever stop!'<br />
There's a reason for that, most men stop too soon.<br />
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Just like with **** sucking, this is something worth learning about and worth learning to do well. I know a man who's a lousy ****, simply lousy, but he can eat ***** like nobody I know and he never has trouble getting a date. Girls are falling all over him. But back to your ***** eating session...<br />
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There's another thing you can do to intensify your woman's pleasure. You can finger-**** her while she's enjoying your ****-licking talents. Before, during or after. She'll really like it. In addition to the erogenous zones surrounding her ****, a woman has another extremely sensitive area at the roof of her vagina. This is what you rub up against when you're ******* her.<br />
Well, since your **** is pretty far away from your mouth, your fingers will have to do the *******. Take two fingers. One is too skinny and three is too wide and therefore can't get deep enough. Make sure they're wet so you don't irritate her skin. Slide them inside, slowly at first, then a little faster. **** her with them rhythmically. Speed up only when she does. Listen to her breathing. She'll let you know what to do.<br />
If you're sucking her **** and finger-******* her at the same time, you're giving her far more stimulation than you would be giving her with your **** alone. So you can count on it that she's getting high on this. If there's any doubt, check her out for symptoms. Each woman is unique. You may have one who's nipples get hard when she's excited or only when she's having an ******. Your girl might flush red or begin to tremble. Get to know her symptoms and you'll be a more sensitive lover. When she starts to have an ******, for heaven's sakes, don't let go of that ****. Hang in there for the duration. When she starts to come down from the first ******, press your tongue along the underside of the ****, leaving your lips covering the top. Move your tongue in and out of her ****. If your fingers are inside, move them a little too, gently though, things are extremely sensitive just now.<br />
If you play your cards right, you'll get some multiple ******* this way. A woman stays excited for a full hour after she's had an ******.<br />
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Do you realize the full impact of that information? The potential? One woman was clocked at 56 ******* at one sitting.<br />
Do you know what effect you would have on a woman you gave 56 ******* to? She'd be yours as long as you wanted her.<br />
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The last advice I have for you is this: After you've made her come, made her your slave by giving her the best head she's ever had, don't leave her alone just yet. Talk to her, stroke her body, caress her breasts. Keep making love to her quietly until she's come all the way down.<br />
A man can get off and go to sleep in the same breath and feel no remorse, no sense of loss. But a woman by nature requires some sensitivity from her lover in those first few moments after sex. Oral sex can be the most exciting sexual experiences you can have. But it's what you make it. Take your time, practice often, pay attention to your lover's signals, and most of all, enjoy yourself.<br />
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I would have just written the web address - but didn't copy that part. lol

i agree with flossy. a woman really needs to relax and be and feel comfortable with her body. Medication aside,,when i used to have them, my body would move and my hips would be grinding that guys face like i was f****** his face. I would imagine friction and rubbing and that's what did it for me..... but sometimes i know i've felt 'wierd' writhing and moving around too's a self conscious thing........

You don't need to do only oral for the whole time. There are so many other ways to get your woman wet and keep her that way while you're resting. You're going to have to do what works for her, though. But it's ok to need to take breaks! Just not when she's close...that's just mean.

well, ummm er my good man...don't know that i'm the right one for this i have had the same problem, i think alot of women have problems reaching ******, it's just not as easy for us as men....i know alot of women will disagree... =))) for me it's a medication problem that prevents it,,, could that be it??? stress, etc..... i don't know, but if she can do it herself , she should be able to tell you what she does........ <br />
ummm keep your chin up, maybe it'll get better LOL