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Who's To Blame?

"All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy."

~ Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

Sylphy Sylphy 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 10, 2012

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“The search for a scapegoat is the easiest of all hunting expeditions.” ~ Dwight D. Eisenhower

Didn't know you like goats, Sci...

I like most creatures - even the faerie kind...

*whack* this faerie is way, way better than goats!

I like Dr. Dyer. I try to watch his programs on PBS whenever they are on tv. His words are wise. But it is really irrelevant blaming anyone. Just face facts. Deal with them. And move on. Simple. Useful. That is what I do. I have come a long, long way. And have a ways to go. But I am happy I am still here and kicking. And living.

I haven't really watched any of his shows; but this quote came to me through a blog I subscribed to. They've very simple words, not even really that philosophical... yet very penetratingly wise.
Keep on kickin' 2011A!

Thank you for the rate, RestlessSoul. =)

And for the many SoMeoNes who thanked me anonymously. *scratches head at this thanking-thingy*

And thank you to KittySoftPaws for the rate...

Hey... I can see the rate ups like who gave them. Thank you to Illeteratetroll! =)

Cool. I can succeed at something. Thanks.
Wise advice.

It's so easy to do this, no? Then things blow up into something that is probably nothing to begin with.

Your fault. :P***

If I tickle you til you pee your pants is that my fault?

Eeeww!!! *whack*
You're trick with your kids won't work with faerie!!!

Faeries don't pee. They tinkle. Or is it twinkle in faerie speak?

Doesn't tinkle go better with the male species?

And yes... faeries twinkle.

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