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Dangerous Curves

I've never liked my body.  I live in a city where stick-thin is the ideal and the guys seem to want that, too.  And it seems as if being white makes it worse; we seem to obsess over rail-thin figures more than any other race and really put eachother down.  Sometimes I'm jealous I'm not Hispanic...

I have a small waist but a 42D bust and a butt that looks just like Kim Kardashians.  I used to be stick-thin when I was younger.  Size 0. 

But time and hormones seem to have changed my body dramatically.  I don't weigh very much, but the curves are just out there!  I admit I'm still self-conscious.  I'm hoping this group can help me change my attitude about myself.

JennyMcNeill JennyMcNeill 26-30, F 17 Responses Jan 27, 2009

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You Are a perfect woman Jenny. and I like you the way you are, are you do have a sexy butt.

To me u sound very hot

Sounds like you have the perfect figure.

I dig gals with curves. Stick girl just does nothing for me.

i really don't know whats so sexy about skinny girls. i always loved voluptous, chubby, plump women. i get really happy and enjoy to see them whenever i go out. usually they are a lot nicer and funnier than skinny girls. it really make me mad when a girl is mad or complaining about her body because theres always a lot of people that like them. they are just beautiful. i mean whats the fun of doing it with a skeletor.

would love to see your body!! you sound so yummy.

Any woman with a butt that looks like Kim Kardashian's butt is sexy in my book ^_^

Jenny please please don't worry so much. I don't prefer skinny women and most men, especially as they get older, appreciate a woman with a bit of (as Bridgette Jones puts it) "wobbly bits" and we honestly don't care in the least. Give me a woman with her wobbly bits any day. <br />
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From your own overly-critical assessment of yourself you sound absolutely divine to me. Please know that there are many more of us out there with my opinions than you might know. But often we look and enjoy. You just seem to hear the complainers who don't really appreciate women at all. For every one guy who complains there are dozens of us who would be grateful to have you beside us.

A woman like you with great! curves is hard to find if you think about it ,I would love to have someone like you . ( please send a pic ) and Love yourself

you have the figure of a "real woman" not a plastic Barbie doll.There are plenty of men who appreciate a woman with curves so like you just haven't met the right one yet.<br />
The way you you described you figure sounds very sexy to me !!!

you have the figure of a "real woman" not a plastic Barbie doll.There are plenty of men who appreciate a woman with curves so like you just haven't met the right one yet.<br />
The way you you described you figure sounds very sexy to me !!!

I think you must be happy that you have a curvy figure....you see, men do not like those ramp walking stick thin females, they always prefer women who had curves at the right places and the ability to bear their child with less complications.<br />
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Flaunt you figure by wearing skin hugging clothes and let the men folk celebrate!

Don't you just want someone who likes you for you are, anyway you are? ... you'll be much happier not sweating the ideal woman bullshit ... take it from a 50 year old ...

Hi Jenny,<br />
you should be proud and happy about yourself. Physically - small waist, sexy boobs and hot butt - for many men is a dream. <br />
Your shapes are definitely sexy and i'd say hot.<br />
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You may be depressed but your physique is definitely not the reason to be.

Sound absolutely gorgeous to me!

Wow-- you sound beautiful! Let me offer my perspective. I am stick thin -- I don't diet, I just have my mom's high metabolism, and I don't think about body type all that often in relation to what men find ideal. I do envy women with curves, with breasts, etc. Your body type sounds fantastic, and I'll bet you have a beautiful figure -- and you sound beautiful inside, too.

You've got an old widower's attention too, Jenny. Be yourself, real men will admire every part of you ... stay healthy, ignore the people who starve their bodies and their spirits.