I've been married and divorced twice and I had decided that maybe I'm not cut out to be a wife. Not very long ago I met Alan, and I really like him a lot and he now lives with me and my kids. He owns a couple of businesses and seems to be really well off but he doesn't flaunt it. He's divorced and has a couple of grown kids. I have told him that I need sex from more than one man and we finally had a get together with at my sister's that included my ex husband Ed. It surprised me that Alan really got into it and we all had a great time. He loves my 4 month old baby and he loves to be with me when I'm nursing her and my little girl likes him a lot and he spends a lot of time playing with her. When we woke up this morning he kissed me and told me he loved me and he wanted to marry me and went on to say that we can have an open marriage. Wow, I wasn't looking for that. He told me to think about it before he went to work. I really like him a lot and most women would love to be in my shoes. He's good looking, in shape, good in bed and best of all he isn't demanding and he listens when I have something to say.