I Wonder...

how people handle being in a relationship with someone who doesn't love sex...

I think back on nearly 14 years in a relationship where I was happy if we had sex more than a few times a year.  And it was even very good when we did, but just never enough.  I justified cheating (after many faithful years) because I just couldn't handle it anymore.  I don't ever want to do that again.

Now, single, I know I never want that to happen again.  How do you make sure it doesn't? 

I want to be with someone who's first thought upon waking is rolling over and starting the day off right!  Mmmm.  Can you put that in a personal ad?

Sueorsomething Sueorsomething
36-40, F
5 Responses Mar 17, 2009

Tie your knees together?

im ready t bag it,, life is too short,, im learning that there are a lot of women that want the same as me,, on the same plane,, same sex drive,, and want a friend / lover / buddy too,, and financially im good,, im heading to another state ,, andstart fresh,, john in colorado,!!

You would be shocked fivethousandmiles. The "I Live In a Sexless Marriage" group is the second largest group on this site. Unfortunately, many people are locked in a marriage or relationship where sex is bad or nonexisitant. Some people make little connection between love and sex. Sad but true...

I think you could and you should put that in an ad. You might want to advertise that you're a good woman with a high sex drive who is looking to get to know a man who is the same. The biggest problem I think you'll have is sorting through all the responses.

If you like Pina Coladas... And having sex every day...<br />
If you're not into yoga<br />
If you have half a brain<br />
If you'd like making love at midnight<br />
In the dunes on the Cape<br />
Then I'm the love that you've looked for<br />
Write to me and escape." ??? <br />
What do you think?