Shibari: A Love StoryHi everyone! I posed back in the summer about my FIRST shibari experience. You can read it here
Well, after I experienced the shibari suspension, I definitely knew it was something I wanted more of. I also experienced subspace (that's why I felt so strange after the suspension) and subdrop (the next day). I didn't know what these were but later (much later) got educated on them.
I pursued J. (the guy who tied me at the party in the first experience). He has friends where I live and came here on occasion. We met again, became facebook friends, and kept in touch. It was all very casual. Around October, he came and met me at a bellydance event. We enjoyed it, talked a lot, and made out a little.
We got home and the as he came through the door, he looked at me and said "Yeah, I'm gonna tie you up now!"
If I remember correctly, he put me in a chest harness and bound my arms. He bit me very hard, bent me over the couch, and I'm not sure what else. Somewhere along the line I ended up on the floor. Then . . . we were in the bedroom. Then, he took off his belt. I love it when he uses his belt!
We've ties so much at this point, it is hard for me to remember each time. Which sucks as I want to remember every detail.
Right now, he is getting an iron bed made that will allow us to do lots of stuff.
I wanted to conclude the last story because I had written that I wished J. lived close by . . . .
Well, we are in full relationship mode now and he moved here! I can't believe it, particularly considering how damned unlucky I usually am. I am on a huge adventure and falling in love, just because I decided to explore shibari one night this past summer. He is my dom, my boyfriend, my daddy, and a best friend.
I encourage everyone to follow their hearts and their interests - shibari and otherwise. You never know what will happen!
If you really want to explore, create an account on fetlife.com and learn about local and national events. Then, have fun and take good care of yourself.
Wishing you the best in life, love & rope!