Kissing Is A Lost Art And So Adds Everything To IntimacyKissing, whether it leads to making love or not, is very very important in a relationship and so important. If i am in a relationship with you i would desire intimacy so constantly with you.. It wouldnt matter if we made love out of each time, or even if it involved anything other than my hand on yours or around your waist, and to kiss you.
This kiss could be a lite kiss, a touch of our souls, to a very deep, long, and highly sensual kiss. I so feel that too many people go straight for sex... whether it be a male or female and that is their basis for intimacy and if the core basis, the intimacy is not there, then the relationship gets stale and disappears.
I love to kiss and so start very gently, feeling the fullness of the lips, the warmth and softness there and so just enjoy that. A kiss can be so extremely gentle, or very hard and unfullfilling. I love a kiss that offers so much, offering ones soul to another..then type that lites up the fires inside and melts your mate to you. That kiss, or group of kisses says 'you mean the world to me and in you i find everything i could ever need want and desire'... it is the kisses that says i could be with anyone anywhere and time, but i choose you... i want you and i want you forever and 4 days (smiles in my last relationship with my mate..prior to her death it was a catch phrase that so bespoke volumes of love between us) and that to you i am your mate.
Intimacy is so much more than two parts that meet (in my opinion while the act of sex is wonderful and so very fulfilling, it is a small part of being in love and making love) it is about touch is about connecting with the other and caring for each other. Intimacy is all about always wanting what is best for the other. A relationship is all about connecting with the other...it is about building bridges and wanting the other to feel love, not about having the other feel used and taken or worse about being just a ho for sexual gratification. Kissing is one of the many wonderful bridges with your mate...it is like a caress, a brush of your hand on theirs, words of affection etc. Kissing is such a very important tool to a relationship, so very intensely having to ability to convey love, adoration, need , caring ...everything... or a kiss can be in some cases demanding (in a healthy relationship that can be good if balanced) and conveys such a sensuality and desire for oneness. In short i believe a kiss...intimacy is so terribly important for any relationship. i am carpenterjim65 at yahoo if you read this and would like to know more. if youd like to comment or to connect plz do. thanks, jim