I Believe I Met My Other Half Via The Web, But.....But I'm married (21yrs). I am the husband. A mutual friend of one of my relatives "friend requested me" on Facebook back in the summer. I ignored it at first, but then accepted. She and I just clicked. We im'd each other daily, then talked. Then I got caught. Emails got WAYY out of hand, but please keep in mind that our marriage has been somewhat loveless for the last 5-7 years. We have a 16yo. This other woman is everything my wife is not (or would seem to be) I know this sounds stupid, but I still think about this woman every day. I stopped communication with her for about a month until things cooled off, then sent her a "keep in touch" email. We now may actually talk 1 or 2 times a week. Email about 2 times a week. We have not physically met. She lives about 4hrs away from my locale.
I don't want to leave this earth wondering if I may be passing up my true mate.. I sent her a long lengthy email a couple of days ago, and spilled my heart to her. She has not yet replied back to that one. I am being smarter this time around re/ communication with her (different email, calls only at work; no cell phone records etc.) I know I am not doing the right thing, and honestly my daughter and I had a very long talk a couple of days ago and I told her that I honestly do not know if me and her mother will make it for the long haul. I am trying to hang in until she graduates from HS next spring. My lady friend told me that we would be friends for life. She has 2 teen agers and 2 grown kids from prev relationships. I just feel connected to her. Never felt connected to my own wife after 20yrs. I don't know how to explain it.
I am trying to follow my heart. I would like to keep this thread active for the next several months as I would like to share things with you all as they develop.