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True Love Behind Bars

I know what some of you might be thinking, "Can someone find true love in prison?" I say it's possible but not for all. I meet charlie 14 years ago through a prison pen pal site. We wrote each other weekly and in a month he fell in love with me and asked me to be his girl I told him I had to think about it for a bit. 6 months go by he asks again and againĀ I said I had to think on it. by the one year mark he asked me again and I said yes. I never thought it would happen to me. I think of him daily. in january of 2010 I went to see him for the first time and that is when I set out to make him my husband. even though we are not married yet he calls me his wife and I call him my husband.There is not a day that goes by that I dont look at his picture and smile knowing that I am loved. and when Im sad all I have to do is look at his photo and I feel the love he has for me. I know what your thinking "He just wants you for sex and money."and in some cases you would be right but not with charlie, he has told me if I dont have the money dont worry about it as for sex he would like it better if we waited till he came home, but is not going to say no if he is able to get an overnight. So I say again in some cases yes you can fall in love with a prisoner. They need love too.
goddessangelluv goddessangelluv 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 19, 2011

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wow I love your story my inmate and me knew each other when we were kids and old feelings just came back people think Im nuts but I dont care what they think of me talking to him. They dont know how we talk to each other I send him money but he doesnt ask for it but greatly appreciates it. two more years I hope our strong friendship will turn into a great relationship when he gets out we talk about getting together and being there for each other. Good luck to you!

We are currently in the process of getting him a pardon, because the state of new hampshire where he was sentenced has violated many of his civil rights and was wrongfully imprisoned for the amount of time that they had giving him!

I had also met a inmate while my son was in jail, they were roommates, that was back in june of 2010 and we started writing each other and talking on the phone, and then we started visiting each other. he has now been moved to a state prison where he will remain until august 2017. I do a 2 1/2 hour drive each way to go and visit him 2 times a month, where we get to have a total of 11 1/2 hours visit over the whole weekend. I have been doing this for over 2 years now and we have very much falling in love with each other, and i am totally standing bye his side until the day that he comes home to me! So it goes to show you that it can and does happen.

Girl, thats awesome.....so you meet him 14 years later in person...well i know i saw mine 13 years later after we aparted and when i saw him for the first time again on Dec 8th 2010 OMG...i knew that was my true lost love the man I had once and let go for being inmature....Im happily engaged and soon to marry next year 2012...live and love to the fullest and may God bless your love.

great story. Im in love with a inmate as well