The Tables Have Turned...

I have always been very good at getting the guys i want. but then i always get bored  before the relationship gets serious. my problem is; THIS TIME I DIDNT GET BORED. i love him so much, and for a while it seemed to be going ok. now i think he is bored with me and is done. i know how to hook guys, but how do you make them STAY? I dont want him to be done with us. this cant be it.  there has to be a way.  i know i care about him much more than he does me but i was hoping in time he would come around. he is just avoiding me. if there is no way he is staying i wish he would just do it already, not knowing is killing me! i am constantly on the verge of tears, and scared that every conversation will go there. i would tell him how i feel but i dont want to scare him away. if you can help it would be GREATLY appriciated. thanks.
LittleLady LittleLady
18-21, F
1 Response Dec 22, 2007

The hardest thing to do is leave him alone and leave the relationship alone, but if it's hurting you this much then maybe its the right thing for you to do? Obviously it would be good if you can get an answer out of him, but sometimes guys don't know what they want. If you can try and make yourself as happy as possible, by doing things that you enjoy. The way that you'll keep him interested in you is by being happy and yourself i.e. the girl that he fell for in the first place! I've been down this path before and i know that its horrible, and all you want to do is talk to them and understand what you can do to make it better, but sometimes you really have to take a step back and look at the damage that the relationship is doing to you. After all, much as you love him you should try and look after yourself more! I hope you manage to sort it all out!