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I Love Someone Who Doesn't Love Me

HE Dumped Me....

By: deleted
Written on March 14th, 2008

Well not really. He just quit answering my calls. He wouldn't call and he wouldn't answer the phone. I drove to his place and he wouldn't answer the door. I stood outside and banged on the door for over an hour while I called him at the same time. I could hear the phone ringing inside and I know he was there.

After a month I finally decided not to call him anymore. I have not talked to him in 9 months. I still love him and I can't stop thinking about him. I called him at Christmas and left a message just to say merry christmas. He never called back.

I have tried to move on, and even have a new man in my life. I know that he doesn't want me, but how do I get him out of my head and my heart.

 

He called today for some odd bullshit. I haven't heard his voice in 9 months, but when I answered the phone all the feelings came rushing in on me. I wanted to tell him that I still love him and want him back, Thank god I didn't. I am so confused... Why did he really call?

UPDATE: 

I just wanted to let everyone know that I have moved on in my life. I don't worry about him anymore. I am not even curious as to where he is or what he is up to

By: deleted
Age: 26-30
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12 responses
  • casing6699
    casing6699

    WHY do people do this?! If you don't want to be with someone anymore....SAY SO! It is so cowardly when they just start ignoring you. Yes, we get the point eventually... but don't they have enough respect for us to give us honesty? No closure sucks.

    Jul 12, 2012
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  • chico30907
    chico30907

    It takes two to make a relationship work, but only one to make it fail. He sounds like he was more than willing to hint at it not working for him, but he seems to have hinted without class or character. Lacking these two personality traits should often be red flags. Glad to see you have adjusted and have moved on.

    Jan 12, 2012
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  • TheHarshReality
    TheHarshReality

    I need to be where you are now. Completely over him.

    Dec 31, 2011
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  • ptown1
    ptown1

    Just take it a day at a time.... It will get better. If he wants to act like an a**... Then you don't need him. There is someone out there for everybody. You have to dogde through the bad ones to get to the good one. I know you will find him soon :) Keep your head up.

    Aug 16, 2011
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  • Arcangel2020
    Arcangel2020

    I am glad to hear that you have moved on and are in a bette place :)

    Hugs!

    Aug 15, 2011
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  • AshburnVaMale
    AshburnVaMale

    Very glad that things worked OUT for you....glad your new current guy is keeping you happy!!!! By the way, I like your stories too.

    Jul 14, 2011
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  • Supernaturalfan
    Supernaturalfan

    Happy to hear things have worked out for ya. The first guy was an idiot and because he had decided to be an idiot, the second guy is now happy to be with you.

    Jun 30, 2011
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  • Mediocre
    Mediocre

    oh sweetie, you have no closure, your questions were never answered and maybe they never will be. Ive been there- done that and i still struggle with him. What I learned is that you need to do whats best for YOU. dont rely on HIM to one day come back. He called you, so what? dont make a big deal out of it. If he wants you he will make the effort, other wise he's not worth it! be strong!

    Nov 9, 2010
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  • smichaels2
    smichaels2

    If you love someone

    Let them go

    If they come back

    It was meant to be

    If they don't

    It never was.



    Surrender your will to God, and ask God to handle the situation. Let Go, and Let God!

    Nov 9, 2010
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  • DesertMagnolia
    DesertMagnolia

    Girl, I am SO sorry! I can SO relate to this. I feel this way about my current person. He doesn't answer my calls sometimes and that just tears me apart inside. We are SO good together when he realizes what he has in me. I love him so much and miss him every minute we are apart. I feel your pain so much! I'm glad he finally called you but wish he would come to his senses like I wish mine would. I SO feel your pain. We deserve better but it doesn't change WHO we love!!! It hurts worse than anything in the world.

    Apr 24, 2009
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  • countryboy52
    countryboy52

    I know the feeling, been there done that. I think I would take her back, but I don't really know, she really hurt me. I Loved her very much. Be strong and hold your head up high. You deserve the best. Your Friend

    Apr 11, 2008
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  • xsadiex
    xsadiex

    I know how much ex's can mess with ones head and feelings- I hope you will be able to get over him somehow *hugs*

    Apr 10, 2008
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