I Met A Guy Online And Fell In Love
I met this wonderful guy online. We hit it off immediately. We've been talking for six months now, and as of late, things haven't been going so well. It started to bother me that he kept in contact with his ex-girlfriend that he dated for three years, even though she was the one that made the effort. I didn't want to tell him what to do, because we weren't and aren't doing long distance dating because he doesn't want to put me through the pain of long distance and tells me I'm too young to be tied down. He said he stopped talking to her, though. I feel extremely bad about this, but it makes me uncomfortable that he talks to her. I don't know if that's reasonable, but from my experience, men only talk to women they previously dated if feelings are still around. Since he's four years older than I, I find that he lectures me, condescends me, and treats me like a child at times. It's so frustrating for me. Lately, he hasn't beej as eager to e-mail, call, or text (I'm not a fan of texting) and time when we talked at night is now replaced by his friends. I haven't quite adjusted to this replacement just yet. It's hard for me to get used to us not talkig every day like we used to and with enthusiasm. We've been arguing more often, too, which I know is at my fault because I'm the one having the concerns, insecurities, etc. Last night we had a big argument about me not receiving what I want and used to have from him. I find it harder to trust him. I know I need to make a change, and I want to work through this rut we're in. I'm just confused as to how to start! Someone please give me some good advice? Thank you!