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I Love Southern Culture

Southern Woman Are Like Kudzu...

By: AutumnSwan
Written on September 14th, 2012
Age: 51-55 , Female
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40 responses
  • LacieStCloud

    yes indeed!
    i happen to think kudzu is beautiful.

    Nov 27, 2012
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  • SouthernMist

    I’ve read thousands of stories on EP, but this is the first story that I could completely relate to! Yes, it’s well written, and yes it’s not the typical “me” story, it’s about real life, what molds people in a good way, without preaching and sneering. EP seems to be overflowing with disgusting or hateful stories, so this beautiful piece is a shining haven in a sea of hate and narcissism. Thank you, thank you for writing it!

    Oct 23, 2012
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    • AutumnSwan

      Oh my stars! I think you read my mind; I wanted to write something positive since there is so much negativity on EP lately. The first thing that came to mind is writing about “home”; the South.

      Oct 23, 2012
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    • BeachWalks

      “Oh my stars!” You’re such a Southern girl. ;-)

      Oct 23, 2012
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    • AutumnSwan

      Guilty!

      Oct 23, 2012
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  • AGentlemanLikeNoOther

    This made me smile. Very accurate.

    Oct 15, 2012
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    • AutumnSwan

      I'm glad I brought a smile to your day!

      Oct 15, 2012
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  • Cachinga

    I'm jealous! I want me some of tthat...

    Oct 14, 2012
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  • AlmostAristotle

    I found your comment about your son much easier to relate to. Maybe you should adapt it into a story.

    Oct 10, 2012
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    • AutumnSwan

      Ari, in this day and age I could be taken away in cuff for "abusing" my son in such away! It may not be wise to sharing anymore "lessons from mama". :)

      Oct 10, 2012
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    • IM23059

      Hey Ari, how about if you "adapt" you comment to the story at hand, instead asking the author to write something you might like better. Just my 2 cents.

      Oct 15, 2012
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  • holloway64

    My mother was a very kind, sweet woman, but she could be like a tiger once she got after you. She was a little woman. too. Only about five four. But she always said: God will give me the strength to knock you out.

    Oct 7, 2012
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    • AutumnSwan

      Bless your mother; I love her saying! I too am around 5'4'' and recall an incident about four years ago, with my son was 17 at the time. He must have been having a bad day, and after my second request for him to do something, said, "God damn...alright, in a second!" I spun around from the stove thinking some else must have been in the kitchen because NO son of mine 1.) raises his voice to me - ever, and 2.) he's God damning me or even using that phrase? Has he lost his mind? I walked across the kitchen to him and poking my finger in his chest backed him against the kitchen door, chewing him out one side then down the other, recalling the last thing I said to him is "Don't you ever, EVER raise your voice to me, show you temper to me or use that kind of language around me ever again, do I make myself understood? Because if you do, I will try my best to knock you flat on your back." He said, "Yes, ma'am, I'm sorry." and looked.....scared. We love our children, but disrespect us, and only a higher power will save you from our wrath!

      Oct 8, 2012
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  • FellidayaFiresong

    Wonderful! I was born and raised in Louisiana, and I know just what you mean!

    Sep 22, 2012
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    • AutumnSwan

      Never known a woman from Louisiana who let anyone get the better of her. ;)

      Sep 25, 2012
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    • FellidayaFiresong

      Teehee. That's right!

      Sep 25, 2012
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  • girlfaith

    As a fellow southern gal.................. I LOVE THIS!! We are resilient and strong...........you can cut us down.............only to have us return, and with a veingeance more than likely.

    Sep 21, 2012
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    • AutumnSwan

      I'm glad another Southern sister enjoyed this. Other woman have their qualities, but of all the types of women I've come to know in my life, Southern women are very special, and a Southern woman who is a real friend will stand with you through thick and thin. My two closest female friend are girls I met in college (over 30 years ago) - both Southern girls. We've been each others support system through thick and thin. They are my blessings.

      Sep 21, 2012
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    • girlfaith

      Coundn't agree with that statement more.......................my closests girl friends are...........my sisters...............blood or not!!

      Sep 21, 2012
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  • wildjack61

    You have a new fan, Mrs. Swan. Kudos..or should I say Kudzus...for a well written post.
    Perhaps a similar analysis would apply to illegal aliens and mesquite trees. (Texas here). Just a thought.

    Sep 19, 2012
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    • AutumnSwan

      I'm so happy you enjoyed my little ramblings, Wildjack. Jump in and start a thread about life Texas aka The Republic of Texas; we would enjoy reading your thoughts about Southern culture!

      Sep 19, 2012
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  • mommaceitta

    what a wonderful way to describe us women of the South!!!!! prideful, faithful and ever waiting with a grin knowing that we usually do out live those bastards, sorry that is what most southern men are, most lie, cheat and do any underhanded thing in their power, unless a good woman is behind em with a whip. most think to keep us barefoot and pregnant will keep us tame.... oh the secrets that we will never tell... A lady mind you never does...
    enjoyed the story :)

    Sep 18, 2012
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  • CelticDaughter

    This reminds me so much of my MIL and husbands grandmother - "It returns stronger, and lovelier as ever, much like Southern women. " The stories of the true, hard scrabble life his granny lived during the 1920's and throughout the depression. She kept her family (8 children) together, fed and healthy by her determination and wits. No public aid for this lady, she broke her back in the fields all day, then came in and cooked a meal for her family using what they had on hand, nursed them back to health with folk medicine and believed in prayer with equal parts determination. Gone almost 10 years now, but what a treat she was to know--always happy, kind, and scrubbing her floors on her hands and knees well into her 90's! Couldn't beat her or hold her down. When did so many people get so weak and relying on the government to do everything for them?

    Sep 17, 2012
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    • AutumnSwan

      The women like your Grandmother-in-law are the backbone of the South, and jewels to be admired and cherished. Pride kept them going and strong. I consider myself competent, but when I compare these women to myself, I can't even compete!

      Sep 17, 2012
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  • BeachWalks

    I never thought of the similarities between kudzu and Southern women, but they are undeniable, aren't they? Covering up the ugliness is something we do well, either out of pride or because we just want life to be calm and beautiful.

    This really touched a cord in me. Thank you for writing this story.

    Sep 16, 2012
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    • AutumnSwan

      While writing this, I was thinking about you, daughter of the South. So glad it touched you. Blessings~

      Sep 17, 2012
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  • SeaBuckthorn

    In the mountains of north Wales, rhododendron has taken over large swathes of land. Indigenous plants cannot compete with them and they have nothing to offer our wild life. But the sight of them flowering over the hillsides is breathtaking. I love your posts about the South Autumn.

    Sep 16, 2012
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    • AutumnSwan

      I'm glad you do Sea, and hope you get a little bit of a "feel" for the South in my little musing. Blessings~

      Sep 17, 2012
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  • aradia11

    I feel all American cultures have something to offer and the people have positve and negative qualities both. I suppose. There are sayings and whizmical lines, fried chicken and Paula Dean. And Kudzo also sorry thought it was a puzzle!

    The Northeastern has its culture very diversed and appreciated for its traditions as well.

    PS If you know a recipe on the healthier side for good Southern tasting fried chicken. PLEASE POST!

    Sep 14, 2012
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    • gypsyblu

      hey aradia thals for ur reply... i posted a gulten free recipe for chicken if you would like to take a look at it

      Sep 14, 2012
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    • gypsyblu

      that pauls woman she draws out the southern accent to make it sound dramtic... ... sounds to fake to me...

      Sep 14, 2012
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    • aradia11

      Thanks I made a copy of the chicken recipe..
      I never really paid attention to Paul lady's accent
      being a Noreasterner or Swamp Yank I thought that's
      the way she just sounds....have to listen closer thx for
      the recipe...
      aradia

      Sep 14, 2012
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    • gypsyblu

      i have found many southern people who live out side the southern region have found they get a lot of attention from having a southern accent, and from that, out jumps a dragged out, elongated, dramtic drawl ... all in the name of attention!

      Sep 16, 2012
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  • gypsyblu

    Kudzu was introduced from Japan into the United States at the Japanese pavilion in the 1876 Centennial Exposition in Philadelphia. It is now common along roadsides and other undisturbed areas throughout most of the southeastern United States. Kudzu has been spreading at the rate of 150,000 acres annually.

    Sep 14, 2012
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    • AutumnSwan

      It's lovely to look at, but I wouldn't want it on my property!

      Sep 17, 2012
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  • CrazyWaterSpring

    My mother was an old school southern gal from Alabama. She would endorse this story.

    Sep 14, 2012
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    • AutumnSwan

      Hey, you can't beat mama's endorsement, I don't care where you're from! Glad you liked my musings.

      Sep 17, 2012
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  • girlmcgirly

    I love this so much...especially being a southern woman. A southern girl who played in the kudzu even. :) As Historian said, well said!

    Sep 14, 2012
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    • AutumnSwan

      Glad one of my Southern sisters liked it!

      Sep 17, 2012
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    • girlmcgirly

      :)

      Sep 17, 2012
      1 like