What Men Really Think About Large BreastsHOW MEN REALLY FEEL ABOUT BIG BREASTS MAY SURPRISE YOU?
I get to hear this question at least two dozen times a week from my large
breasted clients and via internet mail and groups .
Actually it's a great question, so I took time to investigate it by asking some 400 plus men from all walks of life over a period of 2 years.
Plus I added to this the comments of the busty women I serve
and what they had to say about their men.
It might really surprise you.
WOMEN ARE BETTER BREAST SUCKERS THAN MEN
It seems that most men will go gaga when they see a nice set of big boobs on a sexy woman as she comes into view. Then they usually add
their comments something like this; "see the knockers on that broad",
"look at the **** on that *****", " man, I'd love to suck on those babies",
"holy smokes look at the cans on that chick", or " I'd love to stick my **** between those hangers." True big breast lovers have much more interesting things say.
After all, the breasts are to men a sign of strong fertility, true or not.
Bigger breasts seem to have the words, "we can better feed your offspring and provide loads of fun in bed."
They are called "fun bags" a feast for the eyes and a quick way to get a rise in most men. The breasts are connected to the nerve centers especially what men call "first ba
Breasts also seem to have a calming affect on men, perhaps a distant reminder from their past childhood. According to Sigmund Freud, there are three stages in the early development of a child that give an unconscious drive to the child’s actions.The first stage a child encounters, the oral stage, is what gives the child the instinct to suck for both physical and emotional nourishment. The suck helps an infant during breastfeeding, the primary way for receive food. Therefore, failure to completely gratify the urges during the oral stage will lead to oral fixations. Are men fixated to suck the nipple ? In actual fact this fixation also applies to women. In fact, in a separate article I wrote ba
WHAT SIZE DO MEN PREFER ?
In this article dedicated to how men feel about big breasts, I want to share with you what the men told me about breast size.
First I want to point out that many surveys have been done on breast size
and what men prefer. However, prefer, like and want can be misleading.
In some studies 23% want large breasts while other studies show 59%.
What after all is large? Some women feel their C cup is huge while a woman with K cups says she is just above normal. See what I mean?
Here is what I found from the men;
2% said they like small breasts like an A cup
15% prefer a B cup
48% said they would like a C cup best of all !!!
17% want a D cup or larger
18% said it doesn't matter what the size is as long as there is a nipple to suck.
As for those that like the busty ladies here is what I found.
The truth is when I asked them if they would go talk to that busty woman, the vast majority said they would not. They felt that the woman would tell them to get lost or say something like, "you like them but sorry you can't touch them." Yet I know for a fact that after 35 years of dealing with such ladies, most busty women would
actually love to be approached, as long as it was in a civilized, funny manner that is not intimidating or threatening. I'm well aware that there are people reading this who do not agree with my findings but let me tell you, I'm basing this on years of personal experience in this area . By the way, feel free to comment here or directly to my email at ...............email@example.com.
If you read the postings and stories just here on EP alone you will agree that big breasted women love the attention their cleavage attracts and they ache for lots of breast attention, especially lots of deep and passionate nipple sucking be it from men or women. Those that are lactating dream and fantasize about suckling multiple partners or better yet an army of feeders.
These women find that nipple sucking alone can provide intense ******* and a special closeness with their partner. In the case of Adult Nursing Relationships, a unique bond develops that is so intense and so erotic
that some are even driven to tears of blissful, glorious joy.
HOW MEN HANDLE BREASTS
Getting back to how men really feel and act when faced with what I can the "business end" of a very large set of mammaries , it is a whole different story. Men talk up a big erotic scene of how they would do this and do that. But, in actual fact here is what they usually do;
1) they start to squeeze and knead the breasts as if playing with dough
2) they lift the breasts and feel the weight and comment on it
3) they begin to wildly suck or lick one nipple while squeezing the other
4) they make childish comments or use erotic talk
5) they bury their face in the cleavage, shaking their head from side to side
6) they squeeze or suck while the free hand swings down between the legs
Total time at the breasts , about 5 minutes at the max. in most cases.
Then a quick mouth to mouth kiss and it's time for his penis to get it's turn for action.
This usually leaves the vast majority of big breasted women feeling cheated out of the attention needed to satisfy the deep achy throbs and strong tingles within the wanting breasts. This, just as the breasts were warming up, getting flushed with blood and hormones to experience the attention they so desire and need. In nursing breasts lots of attention is not only sought but required in order to stay healthy.
The truth is women need the attention both above and below.
Men are willing to give 2 to 12 minutes to the above area and 4 to 16 minutes to the area below. In reality, the "*****" is what they really want.
This is what the "little head" the penis is ready and aiming for.
Granted there are men who try to "**** those ****" and do enjoy it.
But it is not the same feeling. The penis simply does not get the same
surrounding embrace as what the female genital area provides.
So, unless your man is a super breast freak with little interest for what's between your legs, don't expect him to entertain your breasts for more than a few minutes at
Here is what many men have said about BIG BREASTS AND LACTATION. Please ladies, don't get an inferiority complex because of what SOME men say. I'm sure you have preferences in your partners be they male or female.
I can tell you there are many women who look for other women to satisfy their breast sucking needs. As I said before , most women feel that other females provide the best breast sucking experiences with the most intense pleasures. Surprised?
One of my favorite male response was " I like her **** and I don't ignore them. At the same time I never give them the attention she wants for them. I get bored shoving them from one hand to the other or sucking nipples"
Remember, we are told big breasts really attract men so much so that boobs are used to sell all sorts of things. However, read what so many men really have to say. This is not to say that all men are big boob haters. No, this just points out that big breasts have long term admirers, short term admirers and those men that simply haven't got much interest except to say , "look at the boobs on her." Then there are the men that hate big breasts. They like the A to B cup look . Why? They may tell you that anything more than what fits in an old fashioned champagne glass is a waste. They just want access to the breasts just as a child wants access to a toy. As long as there is a nipple to play with for a minute or two these men are happy .
NEGATIVE COMMENTS ABOUT BIG BREASTS
Actual comments gathered from men 18 to 78 years old after a discussion pointing out that D cup is becoming the norm in England and a few other countries. It was outlined to them that DD cup is really the crossing line into the larger sizes.
These are men with at least a high school education to university
degrees. Their breast knowledge was actually quite poor. So, please don't let these comments get the better of you. Obviously these are not big breast lovers ! However it does make you think what do men really think about the bigger breasts.
her breasts are too big for me to deal with
her **** get in the way of our love making
she can't find good clothes, so I don't take her with me
I try to suck her breasts but I hate the taste
I don't suck because I've tasted some salty stuff coming out
big **** make her look like an old sweaty momma
her **** are not perky they droop a lot, makes her look old
big **** are dirty and sweaty
I hate the rash under her ****
I don't like the smell of her boobs, I think she has old milk
sucking milk from her nipple is just to kinky for me
her bra smells when she takes it off, yuk
when we make love she leaks milk all over me, I hate that
she wants me to suck her **** but I hate the taste of her milk, it's watery
her breasts get in the way even when we sleep, my arm even hurts her ****
she can't find nice clothes because of her bra size so we hardly go out
she is always leaking milk and in hot weather she stinks
my girl thinks her boobs are so hot that she sticks them into people's faces
my wife's **** attract too many guys, she should get a reduction
I hate going anywhere with her as she attracts too much attention
her **** are full of blue veins that turn me off
her nipples are too flat because her boobs are too big
The above are the negative comments. The positive comments are much shorter and generally of a basic nature, like, "I find her **** a real turn on."
"Her boobs are like Viagra for me."
This article is far from all encompassing, however it does give you an idea of what men think. Now, I know that I will hear from scores of men who must have been in hiding or they come from the 17% who love D cup and larger group, who will accuse me of not knowing what I'm talking about. My challenge to them is to go do their own unbiased survey in the 400 participant range and see what they come up with.
I would be pleased to hear your thoughts on the above.
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