Until You Try It........you'll never know how good it can be. I was introduced to tantric by a very well travelled and adventurous girlfriend in college. I was nerver a wham bam thank you maam kind of guy, but I didn't always take my time either. My gf's parents were trust fund hippies who travelled the world and spent quite a bit of time in India, where she claimed she learned the practice. I'll admit, I didn't buy into it at first, but once I got the idea through my thick, frat boy skull, I really learned a lot about myself and my lover.
All that being said, it's not for everyone. It can take a lot of time and, as a parent of 2 children, I'm very familiar with how limited time can be. If you're interested I'd recommend reading up on it. There are some great resources on the internet.