Some Of The Many Many Many Things That I Love About Womengreetings,
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i should preface this by saying that women in general are just pretty much awesome.
in my opinion, i think it's about how each individual woman feels about herself and her body. i think that if a woman is confident in them it shows in her mannerisms and how she carries herself, which can be extremely sexy.
when it comes to pure physical beauty, the first thing i always look for is a pretty face. if a woman has beautiful facial features it can suck the wind right out of my chest. there is a woman that i'm quite in love with right now that has the most radiant smile that i've ever seen in my life. it's like a drug. when i talk to her i do everything i can to make her laugh and see that smile. and she has gorgeous, piercing eyes to boot. i can't get enough.
to me though, at the end of the day it's about more than breasts legs or any individual area of a woman's body or pure physical beauty in general. i've met many women that are considered gorgeous and i've had zero attraction to them because of a lack of personality or intelligence or being shallow or mean.
i find women to be beautiful, smart, funny, terrifying, fascinating, and tough (there is a reason they fear the momma bear rather than fear the father) all at the same time. and that's what makes you ladies so damn amazing. i love talking to and spending time in the company of women. always have, always will. i have had and do have guy friends that are totally cool, but i've always preferred my female friend's company. i've been waiting for 36 years to find that woman that has all of those aforementioned qualities, a woman that i can fall in love with... and one that, for a change, loves me back. if i could have one thing in life that'd be it.
the original question was about how men feel about women's breasts... size, natural or implants, etc... and i do prefer natural to implants. but as i've said before i believe it's a woman's body and a woman's choice. that is why i am pro-choice. i think it's a woman's body and her right to chose what to do and what is done with it. i know i certainly wouldn't want some arbitrary social standards, laws, or rules to govern what i do with my body. why would i have a different set of standards for other people that i wouldn't want applied to myself?
it's sad when a woman feels the need to get implants or other cosmetic surgery to conform to some arbitrary social standard. i've seen many women with smaller breasts or other "flaws" who i find incredibly beautiful. embrace your natural beauty. physically and emotionally.
i find it difficult at times not to go off on tangents when it comes to the subject of women. there is just so damn much i dig about you ladies. i think that many women are far more in touch with their emotions and willingness to be open and honest about it rather than hide or bury it down like many "manly men" do. and when it comes to a gender comparison i truly believe, from experience and knowledge of women i've met, from my mom and aunt to friends that i've had over the years, that women are stronger, tougher, than many men. now i know that's a generalization, and i... generally... try to avoid those, but in some cases they do apply. if it were men that were the ones to give childbirth i think the human race would have died off long long ago.
all of the things that you ladies have going on, your physical beauty... and who can honestly say that a woman's form isn't so much more beautiful to look at as opposed to a man's body? we're all.... lumpy and hard (no pun intended) and misshapen. not only are you beautiful to look at, but i love a woman's laugh and smile, their emotions, opinions and feelings, intelligence and humor. that i'm simultaneously terrified of you and magnetically drawn to you at the same time. that i so badly want to find that very special one of you for me. the one that i love, and am loved by in return.
there are about a thousand variations of what i consider to be the perfect day. a day spent just snuggled up next to that special one of you, wrapped around one another, and just totally content to spend hours just completely absorbed in each others company... whether it be sexually, or just curled up in bed talking for hours, or on the couch watching a good movie, or reading a book, or simply sharing the comfortable and entrancing silence as we'd just look into each others eyes and and love just being there with that person and no one else, not wanting to be anywhere else or doing anything else.
it's tough to be a hopeless romantic and extremely alone at the same time. it feels as though there is a large hole right through the center of me, that something enormous is just.... missing. to me, it's one of you. and i can only hope before i leave this earth i can find that one of you out there. most days with the intense physical pain and extreme loneliness that is the thing that i hang onto that keeps me coming back for another day. just that bit of hope for that something incredibly special, that amazing.
at the end o the day, i just can't get enough of you ladies. you kick ***. i know there are many of you out there that don't believe that about yourselves and that bums me out. there is something special about every one of you. i can only hope that i can find the one of you that feels the same way about me.
thanks for taking the time to read my little tangent here.
take care, be well...
Sindrelauris 36-40, M 1 Jan 11, 2013