The Mall.......whew!

I went to the mall where I'm at and for a Sunday....WHEW!  There was such amount of women to look at, all types and sizes. 

You can tell which women takes care of themselves and which don't really care.

If I may offer some tips for a few women. 

  • If you are going to wear sandals or "flip flops" then have a peticure done.  It makes you feet look so much better since they are on display.


  • Do your hair.  Women who take care of themselves have gotten their hair looking good before they go out.  I plays a big role in their esteem also.


  • Cordinate your dressing.  I saw a few that were wearing items that clashed so badly that it detracted from their appearance.  I'm not a fashion guru by any streach but I know what looks good and what does not.

There were several women their that had done a few of these steps and several more and it shows.  It makes them look good and they feel good.  

Guys if you have a girl friend or wife, see if they won't look good when they go out, it is a huge self confidence booster to them and it reflects good on you.

Just some thoughts.

mtvlm mtvlm
41-45, M
6 Responses Feb 16, 2009

That is so right Lady Jane, if I am going to have lunch with my wife or something like that then I will get changed and cleaned up so I look good for her.

Great points nude.<br />
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People read a lot about you on how you carry yourself and you don't even have to talk to them and they can have an idea of how you are from that.<br />
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It is best to make that first impression a good one.

Whether you are a man or a woman, you should put your best foot forward at all times. You not do yourself or anyone your run to a favor by looking like a bum. There are many that do dress like that, both men and women and I feel that their results in terms of attention and people they meet and interact with in society reflects their ability to display themselves in the best way possible.

I know that some women will not do it because they think no one looks at them but I can tell you just going to a walmart and watching the people go through there you can tell who cares about themselves and who doesn't and then there are those who are just...........................ugh!<br />
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Example: Eating in subway and a guy comes in with no underwear on, not that I could see his underwear but the fact that his shorts were really tight and the outline of his package, must of thought he was sexy or something, but it made my wife and her friend almost lose their lunch from just........................ugh!!!!!.

Too bad not everyone feels that way. I know my wife does and she looks great going out either to the mall or when we go out to dinner.<br />
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She doesn't think so but I don't care what she thinks.

I agree with everything you said...I always want to look good when I go out...You never know who you are going to meet! Always put your best foot forward...