My Turn?

I love being held, feeling my boyfriends arms around me holding me close. Unfortunately It's usually me that ends up holding him. that feels good too, but I have a hard time communicating to him that the things I like doing to (for?) him are also things that I would enjoy having him do to me as well. I don't want to come across as overly demanding or nagging, but  how else do I get what I want/need ? Usually when i communicate what I would like him to do , he'll do it a couple of times and then it seems like he's forgotten what I told him and he goes back into the same rut he was in before and i end up "starving" until I mention it again. Any suggestions?

timmerb timmerb
51-55, M
1 Response Feb 9, 2009

Just ask...if you feel starved then its obviously important to you and if he cant see how important that is to you than maybe.....I know that I havent had a real loving relationship EVER (besides my son) if someone asked me to hold them more often, I would be so appreciative that I have that person in my life that I would hold them.