I Do Love It So...

I really do. There's nothing like the feeling of these soft silky clothes against my skin. I can't deny, there's something about lacy, frilly garments that are a super turn on. But it's so much more than that. After all, most folk can be turned on by simply looking or touching female clothes. It has a sort of taboo to it right? Then why go as far as putting them on?

There's a kind of "comfort zone" within all this dressing up. One that doesn't come from touching or feeling fem clothes. In the beginning, it comes from putting them on and realizing that, beyond being a turn-on,  it's feels so "right". It comes from the feeling you get when you realize for the first time that some part of you NEEDS this. Then later it comes from being able to express who you are. Maybe you can't/won't express it to anyone else but yourself. But even if it's private, (I'm not a big fan of the word "closet") it's still an expression.

I love cross-dressing for who it allows me to be. Not in a split personality kind of way. But more of a complete personality kind of way. That's my comfort zone. I love being Brenda.

XXOO Brenda

BrendaCD BrendaCD
36-40, T
7 Responses Mar 24, 2009

Ha !!! What flicks your bic !!!!!!!!!!!!

Very well said. I have similar feelings about it, its not a 2nd personality, but rather being in touch with the repressed part of me society rejects. I dont call myself a different name when I wear a skirt, and I still refer to myself as a man, but a man in hosiery, skirts ets. <br />
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I know many CD's think of themselves as gurls or girls ets and thats fine for you. I'm just happy that we have found out how to tap into this other side of us, and that we have EP to share it with each other.

Here Here!!! Well said!!!! We crossdressers are very blessed to have this within ourselves. I wouldn't change it even if I could.

Brenda, I could not have said that any better myself!<br />
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Enjoy your life, Sis!

Thanks you guys. I love this place! It feels like I can finnaly open up after keeping it to myself for so long.<br />
Brenda

Same here. I love to dress up just to allow my feminine side (Barbie) to come out and play for a while. It makes me less tense when I am dressed and I love just relaxing in my lingerie and frilly dresses.

U go gurl !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!