You Never Know Until You AskI assume that a lot of married men my age fall into a rut. (sex once a week, at best, and then go through the motion) Our sex life wasn't bad, but it wasn't exciting either. We were comfortable, safe, and predictable. However, mid-life crisis suddenly gripped me and all I could think about was sex. I wanted anything, but the norm. The urge for spice became so great that I confessed my feelings to my wife. We have been married for over 25 years, so this news could drive a wedge into our comfortable sex life. I mean, if she was happy with a once-a-week'er she might just tell me to pound sand, or myself. We have never really discussed sex, we just did it, so this was uncharted water. And the thought did occur to me that couples divorce after many years of marriage because one partner wants more sex than the other. So before going into our talk I knew that I would either be a statistic, or a happy man.
After explaining my feelings, and holding my breath. My wife says, what can we do to spice things up? I seems that for sometime she had wanted something extra as well. We did spice things up. We started having sex multiple time a week, bringing toys into the bedroom, and dirty texting each other during the day. I felt like I was having an affair, but it was with the woman I'd been married to for 26 years.
One day I text to her that I'd like to take some photos of her. I knew it would be a hard sell because in the past she would not go for that type of thing. She is very reserved and conscious of her body. However, she text me back saying, "We'll see." I was surprised, because I knew that meant, yes. I couldn't work the rest of the day because a big ***** in my pants.
That was the beginning to my photo hobby. I now have a nice collection of her. Some are artistic in black and white. Some are smutty *********** with penetration. Of all the stuff we do in our new sex life, taking photos of her is my favorite.
So you never know until you ask.