A Question About Stretching
So I've been sounding for a couple of months now. I do it off-and-on with a set of Hegar sounds I found online. They are great--most of them are one size on one side, and a bigger size on the other. The 7/8 mm sound is together, and I can get the 7mm in quite comfortably, but when I try to push it in, the 8mm size gets hung up on the skin at the end of my urethra.
Does anyone have some suggestions for a way to enlarge this area? I don't want to just "shove" it in and split the skin open, but I'm not quite sure how to achieve the desired widening otherwise. I had also picked up a speculum, but it it a bit bigger than what I can accommodate right now.