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I Love My Strap-on

I love wearing a strap-on and using it on a man; not because it makes me feel more powerful or because I enjoy dominating a man, but because it is my preferred way to make love. After saying I don't enjoy dominating men, I am a dominant woman and I enjoy being in control in intimate situations. I love being the one to initiate sex and I love being the one in control of making my man feel good. I often feel as though I were a gay man born in a woman's body. I enjoy being with a man, but I also enjoy being the one to do the penetration. It is an incredibly erotic feeling to see my strap-on sliding in and out of my man and knowing I am giving him great pleasure.
verana75 verana75 36-40, F 11 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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oh the things you say is so true. thanks for sharing.

Now that is an interesting outlook, don't know that I've ever heard that. I imagine there are plenty of other women out there that would feel the same. I believe you are just more in touch with who you are and what you want, clearly open minded as well. Too many women are stuck in what society claims to be proper or correct. Can you please write a book, do seminars, or at least teach a class for others to learn more about this phenomenon. Lol. Thanks for sharing, I'm sure your story brought hope to more than just me.

I would love to find a woman like you.

Do you have a sister? Lol

Oh I wish I met you a few years ago. I've always dreamt of a woman that liked me in panties and would use a ******* on me but it not be about making me into a sissy.

its hot and lots of fun

What kind of strap-on is your fav? Have you tried a feeldoe?

Nice! Your man is one lucky guy.

just a curious question, do you ever want to dominate or take another woman with your strap on?

No, I have never wanted to be with a woman. I love a man's body. A woman's body does nothing for me.

Thanks! If I'm not being too forward, do you have a favorite?

A favorite strap-on?

Yes. I looked at many sites, and the lengths all seem to be in the 6-61/2" range, some even shorter. That's about the length my wife has. I'd love to find her one around 12". :-)

Look on AdamandEve.com or just run a search. There are stores on the Internet that sell all sizes.

I think you are the first woman to write about this under this heading. Interesting to read your thoughts on this. When my wife was in therapy some years ago it was suggested to her that she take the lead in intimate situations. We weren't sure, at first it was hard for both of us, but gradually the dynamic has changed. I do not initiate sex now. It is still somewhat hard for her, but I've come to like taking a more passive role. There is now no pressure on her when she doesn't want sex like she felt in the past. I'm curious, did you buy the strap-on or did your S.O. buy it for you?

I either buy them or we choose them together.