Suggestions For Married Men Who Like to Dress Up
Today I read a story in the Boston Globe, in an advice column. A woman was very distressed because she just found out her husband likes to dress up in women's undies and clothes - though in secret. She went on to say how she is going to need psychiatric counseling and thinks the incident is going to ruin her marriage, even though she said he's a great husband and father.
The poor guy thought his wife would be more understanding when she found out, but is now learning the hard way that he should've "tested the waters" first.
Perhaps all you guys who haven't let their wives in on their secret yet could try this:
For Halloween, tell your wife you want to dress as a woman, and ask her to help you out. Play dumb, saying you don't know what to wear and could you borrow some of her clothes.
I once read of a couple who did this and they both got so turned on by the whole idea that after the Halloween party, they had the best sex of their lives - while he was still dressed as a woman!
At least this way, you can get an idea whether your wife would be turned on or off if you came out in the open about your secret.