My wife and I were discussing our first swap experience tonight and I wanted to share it with you. The first time we swapped we were invited to a "party" and were unsure if we'd join in and really weren't committed to do so, unless we wanted to. We got to the party and mingled as usual and had a few drinks. (BTW, it doesn't take much too loosen up my wife.) Another couple approached us and we sort of hit off. Well, at least we did have some common interests. After about a half hour of conversing, the other woman approched me and began to softly rub my genitals and asked me if I'd like to go further. I asked my wife what she thought and she told me to do whatever made me happy. So, I began to play with the other woman's **** and likewise did the other man with my wife's ****. Next thing I knew, the other woman was unzipping my pants. I told her to slow down and she said that she wanted to go to another room. I had no idea what she was talking about, but her and her husband (?) led my wife and I to a private room. There, she began to undress me and he began to undress my wife. We both decided, "Oh, what the HEll." and got into it. Now, she is giving me head and my wife is having her ***** eaten. Neither of us is complaining, but it happened really fast. Not like I was led to believe where everthing goes at your own speed. I have to admit that this chic really knew how to give excellent head. And, my wfe told me on the way home that the dude really knows his way around a vagina. She said that she had 4 ******** while he was munching on her carpet. Eventually, we both got laid and my **** wouldn't go down, even after I **********. When we got home, we had the best sex ever and it lasted until sunrise. That was a lot of years ago. Today, We are in our mid 50's and still in the lifestyle. We are healthier, happier, closer and more loving to one another than ever. I recommend that everybody try it at least once. You are not cheating on your spouse, but it does make you close. Why? I never figured that out. I love to watch my wife having sex with another man, even if she is giving him oral and she loves to watch me pumping another woman, regardless if I am screwing her mouth or her *****. I really like it when the other woman is telling me to pull out and *** on her face. (No, we do not use condoms. We belong to a club now and we know everyone and we all have to be checked every 6 months for any STD's. There is 278 in our club and we are located in a small town in PA. Everyone is very happy. It is always great to get new members. I encourage everyone to at least go to a party and check it out. You need not do anything if you feel uncomfortable. ) HAPPY TRAILS!