The Best Of Both WorldsI love to dress in women's underwear. I don't want to put on a wig or makeup or go out, but the feel of those beautiful sexy things that we have always bought to decorate my lovely wife turn me on so much, that I want to feel them on me. She and I dress together sometimes; panties, hose, garters, bra, etc and, though it took a while for her to come to terms with my desires in this regard, she fully "gets" me. I am a straight male, who loves to be with my beautiful wife. She knows me as a loving partner who is all male, but sometimes dresses in women's things - it really is that simple.
To say she "enjoys" it when I dress is probably more accurately described as she enjoys seeing me excited, rather than her enjoying some lesbian or TS fantasy.
We enjoy all manner of role playing and I frequently write and read her erotic stories.
The real key to great sex is (as so many have said before) is all in your mind; fantasy, variety, respect, openness and trust all working together make for extraordinary intimacy and incredible sex.
And yes, I love women who let their men wear lingerie because I believe they are smart, imaginative, sexy and confident.