I Encourage Single Women In Their 30s And 40s To Date Younger Men!

Hey there JANE!!

Care to add a 35 yo male nurse from all the way Down Under AUSTRALIA?? Much Love - NORTh xx

Love your story, I'm glad you have an open mind about younger guys.
Isuckbigtits represents young guys horribly. Please excuse him, he still has lots to learn.

only problem (that I just learned recently) is, if you marry a younger person, and your marriage lasted for 10 years or more, you are able to collect on your spouses social security (which ever is higher yours or theirs )

but !!!!! when you go to collect your social security you have to wait till that person is social security age to collect on their name.

you can collect your own s/s... but you have to wait till your spouse is of age (62)

so when I become 62 I can collect on my own S/S but, if I want to collect on my x spouses S/S I have to wait till my 67 birthday, at that time he will turn 62.

"Date whom you want, but as woman become more focused on post secondary education and career, they are less likely to be interested in settling down in their 20s.
The fact is most 35 year old woman are not even remotely interested in men more than 10 years older."

It bothers me that the writer of these posts often makes basic spelling mistakes, such as writing "woman" when he or she means "women" and vice versa. For a woman to do that makes me wonder if the person is in fact a woman.

But putting that aside, if a woman doesn't "settle down" in her 20s, when WILL she settle down? In her 30s and 40s...? I assume the writer is in favor of women in their 40s having children and raising them..? It takes a lot of effort, a lot of energy, and a lot of time, to raise children. It is hard enough for 20-somethings to do it, I can only imagine what it is like for women in their 40s to give birth to children and raise them.

Also, I think the author is only concentrating on a very narrow demographic group when he or she writes "..as woman become more focused on post secondary education and career, they are less likely to be interested in settling down in their 20s.."--- she probably means upper and upper middle class white women. Also, I think she only means women in a small number of countries-- perhaps USA, England, Australia?

As someone who has dealt with women of all races and demographic groups, both in the USA and abroad, I can tell you that that generality does not hold. As a police officer, I dealt with women of all demographic groups, including people who live in the "projects", and I can tell you I lost track of the number of children born to "women" in their teens, not to mention 20s, who have no "secondary education", and one WISHES they would "settle down" at age 25 or even 20 and raise their children, rather than abandon them to the streets.

Again, I'm puzzled as to when the author believes women SHOULD settle down and have children?

I'm now an older man, but I appreciate your point. When I was in my early 20 to mid 20s, I would have liked nothing better than to have a girlfriend ten years older who knew what she wanted. And I would have been happy to marry her if she had wanted.

My first live. In relationship was with a lady 14 years my senior. I.was about 26 when I moved in with her. She was starved for affection and I gave.

That's awesome the world needs more women like you, preferably single though :D

Awesome story. When I was 24 I started having sex with my boss, then 39. It was some of the most amazing times I've ever had. I was heart broken when it was over! She dropped hints over the years that her husband hardly paid attention to her. One night a bunch of us were out for drinks after work and it boiled down to just me and her.. We were both a little loose and she was pining about her marital relationship again. I told her I thought she was lovely. Next thing I knew we were making out in the car. After that we were back at the office in the dark, ******* on the conference room floor. She taught me that it's still possible to have hot passionate satisfying sex even as we get to our late 30s and beyond, and even after we have children.

:). We are pretty awesome; I will admit...

"...great minds think alike about women not just being '3 holes' - having said that, any chance of me ******* u up the ***...???"

I've dated a ******** who is 10 years older than me. She's 32 years old and still really pretty but the best thing is that she knows how to please a man. She really has mother-like characteristics that I enjoy she kissed my neck and body and really pampers me most young woman don't do that.

But we can break your heart , be careful :)

I am almost 60 years old but being with a much younger guy has helped me find my sex drive again. Plus a lot of younger guys want a dominant women.

you may be wrong about the older men.

I love women who are slightly older than me. I dont know how beauties like you stayed single for so long :)

I love older women. They know what they want and how they want it. They are also more open and honest about what they want.

Good story and good point. :)

Good one .. I agree with you . If true love exists between partners then age doesn't matter .

I like your post, and I find my self in the situation where by am attracted to older woman especially those who are around 30 to 40 am 21 years old south african,any south african woman who is interested, she will never regret it I promise

@Orisis96
LMAO !
Yup, your final analogy

"A woman should ideally be married to someone her own age, have regular sex with someone 10 to 15 years younger, and go out to cultural events and get oral sex from someone 10 to 15 years older...This would keep her fully satisfied at all levels!"

sounds about right :")

me too *blush* lol!

Getting stuck with an older male may be ok at first, but give that same guy 10 to 20 years.... and now you have, a hot an horny 45 year old women with an aged and unhealthy senior citizen .

gypsy>>>>yep its true!!! young women should stop and think about marrying older... im living that story right now

i'm married to an older woman and it definitely works for us!

my 20 yr old lover has super fast recovery time.

I like your story,I have encourage all my friends and members of my family but nobody can accept and they think you are weird.but my idea is not for sexual encounters but to experience the difference in human sexual makeup.Only then does one can go beyond sex otherwise one get his sexuality suppressed and then goes into imagination.It can also turn into an addiction if one is not aware.Once you have all the experiences then settle with the one your heart is in tune.It will be a blessing and there will be no more running around for trills Thereafter the search is for higher life,the search for the beyond.Once that has been achieved your dependent on the other is no more.One is free and real love happens.Love without conditions.But it is difficult in our society where it teaches you morality when the society itself is immoral.Our is morality is not real.It not enough to explain about sexuality in this post.My idea is for a new man without any suppression.I am for freedom and love

As an older male, let me say that I don't need a daily nap, I like to go out a lot, dancing and rock concerts included, and I have a lot of interest in sex. However, I fully agree with you. Women in the 30s and 40s need lovers who can satisfy them sexually, and males in their 20s and 30s have more stamina, harder hard-ons, and a still inexhaustible supply of *****! Plus, to make babies, men should be under 40, ideally, just like women: genetic deficiencies increase considerably after 40. OK, I was in my early 40s when my current wife got pregnant...but if there was no problem with the first two kids, we had to make a difficult decision about the 3rd one, who was suffering from foetal assessment of a genetic defect. Not something any woman or any couple wants to face. This being said, an older man may be a little more interesting as far as life experience, interests, and overall outlook on life is concerned. A woman should ideally be married to someone her own age, have regular sex with someone 10 to 15 years younger, and go out to cultural events and get oral sex from someone 10 to 15 years older...This would keep her fully satisfied at all levels!

Not to forget as we are in 30’ 40’s we are at our sex peak while the younger they are we can match our peaks...I'm 42 was with a 20 year old and about to take the virginity of a 19 year old ;)

A lot of younger women do like to play games. That is annoying to say the least. Personally, I believe that very few females and males truly know themselves in their early twenties. You've hardly experienced life and all that it has to offer. In my opinion you should not be settling down at this age as you probably will have not developed your full range of tastes, acquired worldly knowledge, nor been exposed to other peoples cultures and lifestyles. All this makes for a well rounded individual who after experiencing "LIFE" will have a pretty decent idea of who he or she is.



I think that young men are realising the value that older or perhaps more mature women possess and vice versa, older women now realise the value that younger men can add to a relationship. As women are becoming more and more liberated, the issue of dating a younger man is becoming less and less of a taboo and I think that's great. We should not be restricted to a relationship that does not fit our personalities or reflect our needs.



I do however think that there are fewer younger men that are mature enough to make a relationship with an older woman work. It's more than possible, it's just hard finding the right one. But it's hard no matter what age group you are looking at. So I say, disregard age, if you are happiest with someone younger than yourself then go for it. Life is too short to worry about what people might say.



Are you happy? YES? Good! That's all you need to know. :-)

This is silly. If two people are compatible and love one another, it can work. My boyfriend is a brilliant and gorgeous 29-year-old. I am 44. Not everyone wants to procreate. We have individual and shared interests that keep us intellectually stimulated. We have great sex. Alongside from the differences in age and experience, I have multiple sclerosis. The things we enjoy about each other are powerful and plentiful. It has worked beautifully for 3.5 years.

Every couple has issues to bridge and understandings to develop. Culture, age, values, and objectives may hold many differences, and these can change over time. I may not be with my boyfriend until I die, but we will always be friends. I will invite him to my parties and he will play music in the basement with some other ex-boyfriends. And I will be glad I have known them all, young and old.

Nothing weird but would it be ok if i gave you my number? I am 19. male. And you seem like such an awesome, beautiful, and intelligent woman :) It would be fun to talk with you lol. haha