Love Can Equal Hate If You Aren't Careful.I fell hard for a man that I thought was close to perfect. I gave it my all. All my energy, love, heart, soul. Everything. I thought things were perfect and we'd be together forever. I was wrong. He left 1 month ago and I haven't heard from him since. Now I'm stuck with a 1 year lease in an apartment I can't afford alone. Hate isn't a good word to describe the way I feel towards this man, but its close. Especially since hes now with my best friend. Love hurts.