Love Can Equal Hate If You Aren't Careful.

I fell hard for a man that I thought was close to perfect. I gave it my all. All my energy, love, heart, soul. Everything. I thought things were perfect and we'd be together forever. I was wrong. He left 1 month ago and I haven't heard from him since. Now I'm stuck with a 1 year lease in an apartment I can't afford alone. Hate isn't a good word to describe the way I feel towards this man, but its close. Especially since hes now with my best friend. Love hurts.
<3 Alicia
Lowercasemoon Lowercasemoon 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 8, 2007

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Don't think your'e the only one it's happened too-just saying I know it's devestating. It hppened tome too. Was with the same man 22 years-thouht I did everything he wanted and he slept with my so called best friend too. It's the worste and can understand your hurt. Need to realize not everyone's like that.

Well I know how u feel this guy I really loved left me not saying nothing then my good friend stopped talking to me cause she was with him. Don't worry you'll get threw this

That sux. Maybe a roommate to help subsidize your rent?

that sucks...I know how you feel. You give everything of yourself for the relationship and they could not care less. I know exactly how you feel. At this point I stuggle because I still care yet I hate her at the same time. I guess that is what happens when you put your heart out there.

BUT, if you do not do that, then how will you know when the right one comes along. Guess i will just keep getting hurt till i find the right one.

Good luck to you. You are not alone.

that is so right -- that crazy cycle of hating, caring, hating, caring and it doesn't end. i hope it ends soon with indifference.

its too sad ......lov always experience.but surely ul get ur true lov

Look I know that you are hurt. But believe me when i say this. And it is so, so, True. What goes around comes around. Be patient and you will see.

that really sucks. some best friend, not. i hope it gets better.

My boyfriend left a week ago to drop off a child support payment to his little boy's mom, and hasn't returned. I have seen also got stuck with a lease, so I know what it's like. On top of everything else, I lost my job, so I really don't know what I am going to do. Wish you all the luck in the world.