I Loved Someone That Didn't Love Me

She Loves Someone Else ..and I Know That ...still I Love Her...

By: anuragch11

Written on April 21st, 2011

there are billions of people around you,a few you know a few you don't...out of those so many ,there is one special person whose smile makes you happy and whose sorrow makes you sad.yes i like any normal human ,have that special feeling for one girl,one girl who causes butterflies in my stomach when i hear her voice or ever see her.i always want to see her ,i always want to talk to her and i do talk to her on facebook every second day ,she is a good friend but i cant move or think any further...all my feelings shared above also come to her ...then whats the problem??...hehe..she has these feelings for someone else...someone i know from childhood and she loves him long before my realization...he has better physique ,sense of humour and everything else a girl sees in a boy than me..but still i feel bad when i see IN A RELATIONSHIP status on facebook...we were classmates in school and i love her since the 1st day i saw her in our school bus in 8th grade...its been 6 years now and my love increases every passing day.i know i would never get her.AND i dont want to tell her as it might hurt our friendship.i feel dejected sometimes but then as they say IF U LOVE SOMEONE TRULY U SHOULD BE HAPPY IN HER HAPPINESS and her happiness lies in someone else lap...i just hope i also get someone who would love me some day as much as she does to her love and i do to her......

as they say.........THE WORLD LIES ON HOPE..:)

By: anuragch11

Age: 18-21 , Male

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31 responses

ceywat

"Don't dream your life, live your dreams," and that sounds like that's just what you're doing by sharing your story. Wear a smile and just keep living your life, and BOOM, she'll show when you aren't looking! Best of luck my friend, "dreams come true."

Apr 15
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- anuragch11
  thanx mam!!...you have always been so appreciative...:)
  besides...I smile more than ever....probably I have learned to "wear my smile"...certain feelings cant change...but...in past 3 years...I have become stronger...much stronger...I have manned up...and I am super positive for future prospects...:)....wishes and hugs...take care
  
  Apr 16
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- ceywat
  Awww, thanx 4 yer "heart felt" reply. : )
  
  Apr 16
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- anuragch11
  :)
  
  Apr 17
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mydreamingheart

It's a miserable situation...I'm sorry you dealt with that.

Mar 28
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- anuragch11
  I have moved on...much better now...dont worry...:)
  
  Mar 30
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- mydreamingheart
  Okay :) glad to hear.
  
  Apr 15
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UnconditionaLover

Same situation here and same way I just enjoy her being happy , long stopped even hoping for anything to happen... but nevertheless sometimes you just yearn for it a lot... even though its imposssible.... You just want to be in the other guy's place!

Nov 27, 2012
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- anuragch11
  very true....:)
  
  Apr 12
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Hsam23

Awe youre so sweet :')

Sep 21, 2012
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- anuragch11
  :)
  
  Sep 21, 2012
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RupinderJordan

What happened with me too, was that, i loved a girl truly and i was ill of not being noticed by her. She pleased my eyes everytime i saw her, but once i dared to stop her car and asked her to call me, she called, i never expressed the love i have for her but she told me about her personal relationship and i was broken like glass, i dont know where is she today, but finding her again sometime will be the best time of mine... I love her forever... I Love you Nitsimrat...from Rupinder....

Aug 19, 2012
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- anuragch11
  thanx a ton for sharing rupinder....may god hears your prayers....:)....wishes...:)
  
  Aug 19, 2012
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sanasafinaz

Honestly, you very strong person.Because, normally its very hard to see someone you love with other person.But, your love is truly a true and selfless love that you let her to go and feel happy seeing her with another person.BraVo!!

Aug 11, 2012
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- anuragch11
  :)
  
  Aug 12, 2012
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Lux2012

loving her is loving her, you're sad as you do not have romantic possession with her, those are two different things.

Yes, her happiness is important, but so is yours. What would make you happy? If it's her, she's with someone else...knowing that, what would you do now? Tell her or, perhaps, see if there is another girl in the billions out there that may result in butterflies and those special smiles...and she, may not "be in a relationship".

Relationships are a two-way street and life is too short to continually be stuck on a one way...or worse, a round-about (I get stuck on those until I get my wits about me and take the next "right" turn). Be well, anuragch11.

Jul 29, 2012
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- anuragch11
  hmm...mam...first of all thanx for commenting...and ofcourse feeling for me
  you might be thinking that i must be desperate and unwell and devastated due to this girl...no i am not...i know one thing...she didnt break my heart...rather i never tried my luck...i knew all the way about her relationship....i shall be really happy if she is happy in her life, with whoever she wishes....i no more see her as anything in my life but a friend...and its been 3 years since we met in person....i am a rather commoner in the crowd for her..if she ever needs me as a friend i am here...i just feel for her but its not like "i will die if i dont get her" stuff....all the feelings i had have turned into shear respect for what she is...you know lemme tell ya an interesting incident....once we were chatting on gmail when she was a bit upset and told me..."hey kid you wont understand my feelings, what do you know about love"....ha ha....i actually felt a little pain but i agreed..."what do i know about love?"....any how its fine ....i am not a whining baby or something ....he he....and ofcourse if someone comes from front and says the three words of eternity to me with all her heart....i am all hers....i am all optimistic.....take care....:)
  
  Jul 30, 2012
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saanwarla

i loved her when i saw her.i loved her more and more as days passed.but one day when i expressed my love she told that i love a person.it was a shocking to me,that time i realized that she saw me and smiled at me, it's all an illusion of mine.i didn't want to force her.i also fought with my friends who teased her.but now i feel all alone.even nowadays iam walking and studing among her surrounding i which her smell of love is filled.i will be like this for my entire life finishing my duties.I LOVE U MY DEAR forever................................................................................................

Jul 14, 2012
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- anuragch11
  dear...I am sorry...I had not noticed your comment...so the late reply..*apologies*
  let me tell you a thing dear...sometimes in life...what we want is not what we need...there is a person waiting somewhere for everybody...the right one....for you...for me...for every one...just keep patience...and hope..your partner will find you...and keep the warmth of love alive in your heart....god bless...hugs...:)
  
  Apr 12
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May777

Sad story......heartbreak happeneds though :/

May 15, 2012
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- anuragch11
  just that fate is not always generous..
  
  May 15, 2012
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vimalpaniker

dont want to live with a a repaired heart any more

Oct 5, 2011
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vimalpaniker

dont want to live with a a repaired heart any more

Oct 5, 2011
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anuragch11

thanx ......hugs..:)

Jun 20, 2011
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rony111in

Right. never give up on your love. Your love is not that weak. make it strong and make it bold. seeing someone u love, loves someone else is difficult but we as humans are made to make sacrifices.isn't it. I pray that you get your love soon.

Jun 18, 2011
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anuragch11

thanx..

Apr 22, 2011
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justmeonline

Sounds like you're quite open to new possibilities, which seems good!

Apr 22, 2011
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anuragch11

yup i know that and now i dont even think too much about the girl...yes i talk to her,and i take care that she is in a relationship whenever i talk ,she is a good girl and loves someone truly...i am happy for her but still i cant ignore her or swap that special feeling away bcoz it was my first love and that too since school days,and most importantly i never told to her about anything like that so she has no fault either,i knew she loves another guy but then if love had to happen after so much thoughts it wouldnt be love....there would be that special feeling always but again i never let it to overpower me or my thoughts....and it never will....

Apr 22, 2011
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justmeonline

Gosh, anuragch11, sounds like you've got it pretty bad for this girl. Not saying it's a bad thing, but really, I share your hope for someone who has feelings for you in a two-way loving relationship. Sounds like you have a lot to give.

Apr 22, 2011
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anuragch11

heaps of thanx dear ones for all your good words and wishes..:)

Apr 21, 2011
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AmidstTheShadows

awww!

i would also just say - KEEP UR HOPES ALL UP. i am sure you will meet the person you want for youself sooner in life, and as already stated, in a very unexpected manner. so, keep looking up for your surprise...for it can spring up on you when you expect it least. and i think you are to have this girl atleast at your friend rather than have an uncomfortableness lie between you two.

hugs.

Apr 21, 2011
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