Don't Waste Your Heart On Someone Who Can't/won't/doesn't Love YouIf someone loves you....really loves you...you will know it.
I spent 10 years....a DECADE trying to gain the love of someone who always held it just out of reach...if only I would....if only I did this....if only I did that....then he would want me.
And, yes, at times he liked me and yes, at times he loved me the way you do a friend...the way you do someone who has been there for you. But, romantic love.
Never in the cards. He couldn't....I think more then wouldn't. But, in the end, it didn't matter.
You will never earn love from someone who doesn't reciprocate. Don't waste your time. Let them go...say good riddance. Remember, as long as you vest your energy into a relationship with someone who doesn't return your feelings, you are preventing REAL love from coming into your life.
I am now with a man who loves me because I finally let that go.