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What Exactly Is Love.....

I HAVE BEEN IN THREE RELATIONSHIPS IN MY LIFE AND i CAN NOT TELL YOU WHAY THE HELL LOVE IS AND TRUTH BE TOLD i DO NOT THINK THAT i HAVE EVER BEEN IN LOVE. NO, i KNOW FOR A FACT THAT I HAVE NEVER BEEN IN LOVE AND I GUESS THAT'S A GOOD THING. BECAUSE IN THE END I GOT THE SHORT END OF THE STICK. I DO NOT TINK I KNOW WHAT AN HONEST GUY LOOKS LIKE OR  DO NOT KNOW WHAT A MAN WHO DOES NOT CHEAT LOOKS LIKE. AT LEAST HE FINALLY TOLD ME HE DID NOT LOVE ME WOULD NEVER LOVE YET HE COULD NOT LET ME GO. PLEASE EXPLAIN THAT ONE TO ME??????????????
keeaser keeaser 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 7, 2007

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Sorry I am late but I just found this site. <br />
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Human nature likes a challenge, most people male or female likes to work for what they get. Which is a sad reality. If people would just understand that the best thing is life or free. I you want to find someone that truly loves you. True love would be a gift form the heart and work want be needed. But there is also a trick here so be careful. Remember, human nature likes a challenge, so do mistake the challenge for love. If he doesn’t think that he can have you, he will work very hard for you but once he has got to home plate he will lose interest. Many girls play hard to get which in many cases start the problem. If you like the guy let him know that you like him but don’t be easy ether. Let him know up front that you want love and longevity. Remember that love comes form the heart, so when ever he does something for you out of love his only interest is that you are happy. Therefore, if something is done for you and you are reminded that it was done it was not done for you at all. If this is happening the person did this for himself cause he is asking that you respect him for the action, which means there is no love there and this person, puts himself first. True love is a hard thing to find, and not everyone has the ability to love, but then again you have found that out already. As I am growing older, I am starting to give up on finding it for myself, but it is out there. Therefore, I must plead with you “don’t be like me” keep looking it is out there and it is a gift you want need to work for. <br />
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Be blessed always <br />
Samsam3

Hey Conscience I am the same way, lol. All the other guys wanted me to go to parties to meet women and I always declined because I did not want to be with people like that. <br />
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Anyway back to your problem. Love is hard to find. It all goes by what you want. If you don't want something about that guy it makes it harder to love. Just find someone you like almost everything about and it should come. As far as the cheating goes, it is a bad ego problem. I have been talking to a lot of people about this and it seems to fit. Cheating is so common now. Guys have always been...well guys. Girls have changed a lot. They are acting like us so much. Lol, come on you girls were the reason why most of us didn't take you for granted. We had to work for you. Now if you want a women that will do what you want, just go to almost any bar. Kinda drops the value of women if they are so easy to get. What happened to the defencive women looking out for herself so that she didn't get a rotten apple. Aww, life sucks now. We have some good things going but we build on the bad. This seems to be an issue where ever I go now. I value women because I never had one, (well I had one weak moment where I made out with one girl. But I got to my senses real quick and stop seeing her). So my values are quite high. Probably too high for women now. But back not when I was younger. I swear from the time I was in elementary to now, things have skyrocketed in this direction. <br />
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Well all I can say is keep your standards and keep looking. Love is worth waiting for.

I was just reading your comment on my board. I did not mean for it to sound like I was down on all men. The problem is I haven't met a guy that has change my mind otherwise. And you are right he loved having sex with me but it wasn'tthe same for me. I know this may sound odd but when I found out he was cheating on me yes I was angry but in a way I was glad because then I did not have to hve sex with him. And I don't think you're weird because you don't play women. If what you say is true that mean that you see women as being more than a piece of meat.....