About Me

It took me many years to know how to love me. I don't say this in a cocky way. I say this in a very confidant way...

Everyone wants to be the sun that lights up ur life....
Look for the moon who shines during ur darkest hour....
"SHINE BRIGHT" First...I AM NOT DESPERATE NOR NEEDY!!! DON"T JUDGE ME BY A PICTURE.NO, I'M NOT SELLING MYSELF,I'M WORTH ALOT...."HEART & SOUL" I'M VERY REAL.NOT AFARID TO BE A CONFIDENT,POSITIVE WOMAN. my biggest beauty is my heart,"DONT TAKE IT FOR GRANTED,OR FOR A WEAKNESS" There is a difference between a boy and a man. BOY... will look at my picS,judge me,think im looking for a one nite stand,bootay call,write immature e-mails(time to grow up,dont u think?). MAN... will look at my picS and say"wow,what a confident woman",will acknowledge my beauty inside and out....
(YES,I DID WRITE THIS POEM)......Her sweet essence,as she passes you by The way her hair sways . as the wind blows The way her eyes sparkle,as she gazes into your eyes The way she moves her lips as she speaks, sharing,caring with such understanding The sound of her voice,as she soothes your heart,your soul taking away all your hurt,pain,fears and tears The way she smiles,as she lets you know "Everything will be okay" The way she dances..."Like there is no tomorrow"Her passionate kisses..."One moment in time" The way she touches you...LIKE NO OTHER WOMAN Her sweet essence...Body,Mind, Heart and Soul.... SEARCHING FOR...In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the
question:

'What kind of man are you looking for?'

She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye & asking, 'Do
you really want to know?'

Reluctantly, he said, 'Yes.

She began to expound, 'As a woman in this day & age, I am in a position
to ask a man what can you do for me that I can't do for myself?

I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any
man...
or woman for that matter.

I am in the position to ask, 'What can you bring to the table?'

The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to
money.

She quickly corrected his thought & stated, 'I am not referring to
money. I need something more.
I need a man who is striving for excellence in every aspect of life.

He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, & asked her to explain.

She said, 'I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally
because I need conversation & mental stimulation. I don't need a
simple-minded man.

I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I
don't need to be unequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a
recipe for disaster.

I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don't
need a financial burden.

I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through
as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded.

I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies and
game-playing are not my idea of a strong man.

I need a man who is family-oriented. One who can be the leader, priest
and provider to the lives entrusted to him by God.

I need someone whom I can respect.. In order to be submissive, I must
respect him.

I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I
have no problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy.

And by the way, I am not looking for him...He will find me. He will
recognize himself in me. He may not be able to explain the connection,
but he will always be drawn to me. God made woman to be a help-mate for
man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself.

When she finished her spill, she looked at him.

He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, 'You are asking a
lot.

She replied, "I'm worth a lot".

IF YOUR PIC THAT YOU HAVE POSTED IS NOT WHO YOU SAY YOU ARE..... DON'T WASTE MY TIME!!!!! HAVE HAD MY FAIR SHARE OF DISAPPOINTMENTS. TIRED OF THE LIES AND BS..... THANK YOU FOR TAKING THE TIME TO READ MY PROFILE:

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May 14, 2012