I Loved Someone Who Didnt Love Me

You're making some pretty big mistakes wishing for something that isn't meant to be. Believe me, right now you're experiencing this feeling that here MIGHT be a sparkle that may erupt some day, but, spoiler alert, there isn't any.

He's not your soulmate, soulmates stick together, this one obviously didn't. You had a crush on him, yes, and that MAY have been love, but, sadly, love doesn't work that way, it's not a romantic movie, where the couple eventually ends up together, it never happens that way, mostly because movies are fiction, and fiction needs to be interesting.

You're helluva young, though, in all honesty, I've seen people well over their 40's marry someone they love, and they don't care if it took them such a long time, they're just happy. So, you know, don't cry for someone that won't cry for you, because you're going to make it worse.

Find ways that, don't necessarily make you happy, but lets you take your mind off of him, there's no secret of getting over this in a matter of weeks, you just have to forget him by yourself. I barely got over mine in an entire year, and it's mostly because I did many mistakes on my part without realizing that. So, you know, I'm basically analyzing myself here about what I did wrong and telling you what to do instead.

Talk to someone, relatives, friends, family, someone, maybe even a psychologist if you feel like the world's ending (I went to a psychologist after getting my own heart broken, maybe she didn't cure me completely, but she gave me calmness for enough time, at least.). Even if you know they won't change anything, it's always better to talk about it.

Don't pray so that he'll come back, pray that someone else, much, much more perfect could come into your life, and it will surely come.

Don't check his twitter, facebook, or text messages, if he's not replying, he's not replying, so don't look at it, don't even try to take a quick peek at it, because you're just slowing the progress down of getting over an illusion of a soulmate.

What I did, is that I diverted all that sadness into locomotion, in other words, I realized that I ain't perfect, and I started perfecting myself in a number of ways. Learned a few instruments, painted, started actually getting good grades. So, if there's a time for you to actually start achieving something, it is now. Everything you do or feel in your life can actually be made into something practical.

You can also get angry at him, (e.g. how dare he doesn't reply to me!), which makes you understand he's not as perfect as you thought he would be. Don't think up reasons why he didn't or did do something, because you're only giving a reason to feel miserable again.

Like I said, don't cry for someone who won't cry for you is probably a number one rule here, of course, crying can also help in this, but don't cry daily, just let out your bottled up emotions and carry on.