I'm in love with a guy who says "I want to be with you eventually" ..talks to other girls...tells me he likes me..goes above and beyond for a birthday...can be a total *** especially when he's mad..and is very quick to point out my faults but none of his. He's not perfect but neither am I. My feelings have grown so much. I've had a thing for him but didn't turn real until we became actual friends that hung out and talked daily. So we progressed to more and 4 months later we are closer but not official. I don't want to be that person who gives ultimatums especially for a situation like this one. Will he ever want to be with me? I know his answers to my questions but am I being indenial of him not wanting to be with me because i have such strong feelings? He's always told me he wanted to take things slow. Well it's been 4 months now and I'm starting to get jealous of every girl he talks to whether it's a friend or a pic he looked at on fb. It's really terrible. Any advice ladies? And to the men, when guys say "eventually" does that mean never? Any feedback is appreciated! Thank you!