I Ended A Love With A Woman Suffering With Bipolar DisorderI held on to her so long, long after i knew it was hpoeless. She has brought her career to an end. Wrecked her life. Kept pleading with me to "save me", calling me her "hero" at the same time she pushed me away emotionally. Tonight she came over and i made us dinner. Then we discussed what remains of our relationship. That is when she said something so horrible, so offensive that i couldn't believe it. She equated making love to her being a *****, that she didn't want to have sex because that was how she felt. I told her that we really did not understand each other. Stated that the last 2 years were not about sex. Supporting her was not a payment, that it all came from love. None of this was ever heard. She wants me to keep helping her. How can she do that? What kind of man does she , did she think i was? We were nurses working together. She sole drugs and wrecked her career. She keeps doing risky behaviors. She has no income outside of alimony and her ex is going to have it stops or get her arrested for not making her child support payments! I now believe she must have borderline personality disorder masked with her bipolar symtoms. She actually said she was going to kill herself again!
I told her that was no way to manipulate me. That it would be on her head. I will speak with her Doc tomorrow, make him aware. That is all i can do! I promised to make her car payment for a couple of months to give her a chance to do something before it is to late. I will not have contact with her. Just drop a check off and go. To think we were to go to Busch Gardens together next week. She probably thinks she can pull me back in, not now, not ever again
therealfokker 51-55, M 19 Responses 24 Nov 14, 2012