Unrequieted Love

I am in love with a man I met online 2 years ago. He is married but left his wife 5 months ago. He is only 38 and I am 44. We have spoken for hours and hours and after 2 years we met for the first time. He is extrememly fit and good looking. He is also a nice person and someone I get along with very well.

When I met him, I knew I loved him. He was so natural and calm and engaging. We made love and it was good. He told me that I was perfect but I know he isn't ready for a new relationship...and even when he is, I don't think he will want me.

I am not going to say anything. I am just going to love him from afar, until he meets the love of his life.

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3 Responses Feb 23, 2009

I know the feeling and your best course of action is to find someone who will love you back. You may have to go thru a few frogs before you find your prince or cess so you cannot give up.

I don't think I will ever find anyone the way my life is going. People hurt me all the time so I am just doing the best I can. <br />
I saw on the news this week that marrage is becoming less popular. I never thought marrage solved any problems but created many more problems. <br />
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I guess we all get through our lives whether we are with someone or not.

Hmmm.<br />
Let him know exactly that!<br />
See where he goes...