I going to lose her...

I was in love the first time I saw this person. Ever since I cannot start thinking about them and I only see them 3 times a week at the most. They are way out of my league, so there is no point in trying, but if I don't I know I'll regret it for the rest of my life, even though she is a few years older than me.

What shall I do? Tell her and risk getting really embarassed or not and never see her again?

 I would tell her but she we don't know each other THAT well. She's going back to France next month, I don't know what to do?

I don't know what to do when she's gone


Everyone tells me to tell her how I feel , but I fear that she'll think I'm joking and being stupid.







Its too late now.................She's gone

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18-21, F
16 Responses Feb 5, 2007

Do it! Nothing ventured nothing gained as they say.

We've all had the little red haired girl (THINK CHARLIE BROWN) that we loved from afar but never manafed to actually meet.

oops i forgot to read the second page...

Ahhh deary im sorry :/<br />
did she go to your school or something?<br />
isn't there anyyyway you could find her?<br />
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if it's meant to be you'll find her

You know even if she doesn't love you back. One day you will find someone similar to her...even though they aren't the exact same person. Life is the longest thing you will ever have and in that life is the wierdest experiences ever and you experience them to help others. Good luck hun i'm sure she will love such a sensitive guy =]

I have found out her email address, and am going to email her, but I have no idea what to say.

I've tried looking for her all over the internet, but all I know is her firstname.<br />
My last chance is to email someone who knew who may have her contact details, but I don't want to sound weird when I ask, and I have no idea what to say.

awwwwww omgosh honey!!! isnt there a way to get in touch with her? an email address or internet site or something? Maybe you could find a way to contact her.

She knew that I 'liked' her as she saw me around lots, and I spoke to her a lot , but she didn't know HOW much I liked her. I can't belive she is gone.. I htink about her EVERYDAY and miss her so much that when I think about her I feel SO sick.

I regret not telling her and not even keeping in touch

Thanks everyone......... Unfortunately she left before I had time to say anything to her... but she kind of got the idea... as she kept on seeing me and talking to me....... I regret it SO much.. its the worst thing that had ever happened to me in my whole life.. and I can't stop thinking about her.

Well, what is certain about this situation? The only certain thing is that you will regret not telling her for the rest of your life. What is likely? That she will not return your feelings. That's ok, it means you have nothing to lose, and never did. If you do not love her enough to risk embarrassment, you do not love her, full stop. No, really. Finally, if you're worried about thinking that you're joking, don't just say "I like you a lot", make a big, appropriately romantic gesture that leaves her in no doubt. If you're going down in flames ANYWAY, go down with pride, and give yourself something to smile about in the years to come :)

tell her. i told the ob<x>ject of my affection how i truly felt for her. and her not feeling the same is the worst feeling ive ever had. but no longer is it in the back of my mind like it had been for months, that i would have chickened out of telling her before it was too late.

Damn, that is really hard. Maybe you should tell her that you like her and would like to have more time to know her better?

Tell her. You only live once!

at least if you tell someone how you feel about them, even if it is not well received- you live without the regret of never having said what your heart wanted to. if you don't share that feeling, you never know what could have passed you by and you may spend a lot of time wondering what could have been.