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Got to End the Pain!

A personal story in the experience: I Loved Someone That Didn't Love Me
I ve spent 5 years in love with a woman that does not love me. Ive been through two years of therapy and now suffer from depression. I feel like a loser because I'm married to an amazing woman that I just don't love. Because of circumstances its not even possible for me to confess my love for the other woman because she works with me. The hardest part is I have to work very close with her every day including travel abroad. my wife is beautiful and kind so its strange that I'm not more in control of my life. Its killing me inside and makes me lose all confidence. I do know the other girl is not totally unaware and does things to keep me close and interested which makes me feel even more like a loser because I know she is using me. 5 years with a broken heart is  along time and now its effecting all parts of my life, its time for massive change that may include a new job and location. It seems like there should be a better way.

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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 2:19PM
Gee, i feel when i read your stories, I am seeing myself within them, it just amazes me to read stories on love and how painful love can really be, i got out of my marriage because there was no love, now I am in another loveless situation, i will never learn.
     
Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 2:19PM
Gee, i feel when i read your stories, I am seeing myself within them, it just amazes me to read stories on love and how painful love can really be, i got out of my marriage because there was no love, now I am in another loveless situation, i will never learn.
     
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Posted Oct 6th, 2009 at 2:25PM
I am sorry. I wish I could help. I would opt for changing jobs and moving. Life is short and there are not garentees. Good luck.
     
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Posted Oct 6th, 2009 at 2:40PM
It's my own fault I let me train wreck of a marrige go and not deal with it. I deserve what Im getting but EP has helped redirect my thinking. Im positive about the future. Hearing your story and how you feel does help me more than you could know!
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