I Enjoy Reading Literotica/watching **** - Ok To Share With Bf?

I guess you could say I am a lot more shy than my bf. A few times when I was on his laptop I noticed he visited some **** sites. I got curious, so when I came home I looked at the same stuff, mainly wanting to see what he liked, but then got into some of it myself.

Problem is though, that most of that stuff has overly enthusiastic, loud women who have had plastic surgery, and the sex is kind of ... just sex. There is very little emotion in it otherwise. So I prefer reading stories...

Anyway, have any of you ladies ever shared that kind of stuff with your man? How did they take it?
Men, what would your take be if a woman sent you what she liked?
Nostalgia86 Nostalgia86
22-25, F
16 Responses Aug 4, 2010

If my girlfriend showed me something she liked I'd ask if she wanted to recreate it or leave it a fantasy. If she said recreate I'd do whatever it took to go all night and all day until she was satisfied

i would love it

Nostalgia, for a few years, my wife and I would each take turns reading literotica stories to each other, we'd pick something that made one of us really hot, and read it to the other, and talk about it...it was very sexy, and I don't know why we stopped..before that, years and years ago, we started reading Penthouse Forum, and Letters to each other coz the **** movies were so crappy, just a lot of ****-scenes with no foreplay or getting to know the characters...I still like reading erotica better, but always keep an eye out for good videos. I've had better luck watching things like erotic massage videos on xhamster or ytoob, or those other sites...

Years ago my girl friend and I use to read Penthouse forum, and some other mags called Family love. We sent in a couple stories to them.

Yrs ago watching **** on Videos, we didn't have DVD's back then, with my GF she let me know she was bi-curious, when I said cool ! it didn't take long and she found a friend to bring home to play with and they "forced" me to watch LOL

I love watching **** but No way do I say to my husband " I love Watching a woman get off " lol

I think you should be sexual open with your partner. It makes for a better relationship.

I think good relationships are built on sharing what you like or dislike, whatever it may be. We shouldn't be judgmental about our partner likes. They may not even know why they like certain things,

Open relationships is whats required for both to enjoy such things...I love watching **** and you are right most of that shiit is manufactured, which is a shame because very rarely do you come across a woman salivating when she is having sex. And this is what I miss in ****, A woman who is on the precipice and ready to *** in plain sight. Those are the best sensual **** you speak of, the one's that both parties get in to.

sharing is the way to go. watch what you like, than watch what he likes

Do it!

My wife and I watch together. We share all **** together, actually. We find what she likes and I help her *** over and of again. Just enjoy...

I would love to have my girlfriend share her **** likes and desires with me. I think its nice to share the intimacy of solo play into a shared experience with your partner. I'd love to share every secret said elf my sexy libido & it helps to feel more accepted to know that your woman has to satisfy her needs and that she's willing to share those fantacys with you.<br />
But then I am a very liberated fellow, I can understand who some men might want to keep that part private.<br />
3 most important things in a reltionship, communication, communication, communication. .<br />
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I would find it an incredible turn on for my lady to share her wants. For ****, I like the ones that have context - a story, some dialogue - a feast for the mind as well as the eyes. Last point, I find sex to be an intimate moment and don't want anyone else around that won't participate.

My husband and I share **** all the time--sometimes with our friends, sometimes by ourselves. It might be written or visual but, if nothing else (though usually there is a LOT else), it opens a discussion of what we would like to try, where, with whom. <br />
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I think you should definitely share the stories you like with your guy. You should also try to find some video **** that is more attractive to you, as well. This is because guys tend to get more turned on by watching than by reading and it's only fair that you should try to play on his ball field if you want him to play on yours. There is plenty of **** out there that is for women--it's a lot less about the extreme body shapes and unrealistic performances and more about people just enjoying themselves. Possibly your guy will enjoy these videos as well, but the other kind is just a lot easier to find. <br />
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If you share your favorite sexual stories and he doesn't appreciate the fact that it could help both of you have even better sex by giving him some insight into what you like, find someone who does. Believe me, you'll both be better off.

Thank you! I have to admit that we enjoy it, too. ;)

One of our favorite times was reading the Story of O out loud to each other. Neither one of us knew what it was or what was coming. Very fun.

I've written about 50 "adult themed" stories, mostly on a "by-request" basis. Requests from wives/husbands and couples. I too prefer the written versus the visual! Bill in Va.