Women are constantly being told AMAZING SEX will win a man's heart.

This is false.

Just because a man sleeps with you doesn't mean he cares about you.

Nor will good sex make him care about you.

madz1smyname madz1smyname
31-35, F
8 Responses Nov 28, 2012

Your right - long term they have to want to be around you, enjoy who you are , conversation, enjoying life together - I have had a relationship where sex was the only thing that we shared - it wasnt enough to keep his interest and my emotional connection

Personality is what keeps me around. Don't like drama backstabbing and lieing

The lack of sex doesn't help. My wife banned it 27 years ago. We are now strangers living in the same house and sharing the same bed.


You ought to post this in every experience group across EP. Make this k n o w n, honey!

amen sister!

Whatever brings you pleasure will be amazing when taken to its limits. To try various methods of sex is truly great.

Food and Alchohol helps too :-)

I do have to add though that "Great Sex" added to everything else might keep his interest up.

I care about a few Ladies but do not want to stay with one that just lies there in bed :-)