I've written a lot of stories about this subject and my experiences in my marriage and I sometimes get a lot of judgmental comments. I also noticed that most of these comments came from people who are single and have never even been married. So how are they qualified to give me advice and judge me when they have absolutely no idea how it feels to be in a troubled marriage. They only have ideas about what they would feel or do in that situation. So I think people should not judge until they have been in that same kind of situation and felt the same feelings and actually know what they are talking about.