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I 'm Saying Don't Judge Me Until You've Walked In My Shoes

Married But Lonely Don't Judge

By: howsab
Written on March 29th, 2012
I've written a lot of stories about this subject and my experiences in my marriage and I sometimes get a lot of judgmental comments. I also noticed that most of these comments came from people who are single and have never even been married. So how are they qualified to give me advice and judge me when they have absolutely no idea how it feels to be in a troubled marriage. They only have ideas about what they would feel or do in that situation. So I think people should not judge until they have been in that same kind of situation and felt the same feelings and actually know what they are talking about.
By: howsab
Age: 31-35 , Female
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  • koolkatjossie
    koolkatjossie

    It's not easy just to up and leave if you have kids. Then you have to think about money. Times are ruff now. If you do want to leave think about the W's ( Where, When and even How). I am thinking about a friend w/ benifits.

    Mar 29, 2012
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  • idlewatcher
    idlewatcher

    Why are you still in the marriage then? It seems like you would be a lot happier if you weren't.



    Life is too short to worry about what other people have to say to me - they either support you and your decisions or they don't. Hopefully you are working toward a resolution one way or the other Sab :)

    Mar 29, 2012
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  • koolkatjossie
    koolkatjossie

    I am married and I do understand what you are going through. I feel the same way. Everyone is damanding something from you and not wanting to liston to you. It's always about them. I hope I can help you, even if it is just to liston.

    Mar 29, 2012
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