How Not to Abuse My Power
I laugh and flirt with this man on a daily basis, in nfact he makes me happy on a daily basis. In work he recipricates everything that I do, but I only do it in front of others so therefore so does he. On our own I am always professional and discuss his problems and his development. I am to scared to let him know that its real for me and that I think about him night and day. He makes me feel 15 again! I know I hold the position of power and dont want to make him feel uncomfortable, I would hate to lose him as a member of staff as he is a top member of the team. I dont know if he behaves as I do because he feels the same or if he thinks its all just fun, and I cant approach him about it in case it f***s everything up. He makes me feel protected and I feel that if I jumped of a cliff with him he would make sure he landed first so that he could protect me from harm. He respects and admires me so much and I dont want to ruin that for me, or for him. And I dont want him to say yes to me just because im his boss. You have any ideas anyone?