I've Never Been So Scared.

I made my boyfriend cry tonight. I wanted to, but when it happened I was afraid. He was my supporter, but when he lost it I didn't know what to do. He just cried and fell on my lap and shook, and that's when I knew that I needed help. I need someone to talk to, I need a therapist. There is something wrong with me. I am not normal. I need to know that it's possible to not be truly alone.

juliajealousy juliajealousy
3 Responses Mar 1, 2009

hi Juliajealously, I know you wrote this months ago, but I was just wondering how it got resolved? Are you still with him? I'm just asking because I had a similar experience just the other day - I didn't mean to make him cry, and I was so shocked. I tried to make him feel better and he responded when I did, but it was like he was a child. Afterwards he was really really embarassed. I think it's hard for guys to cry in front of a girlfriend, more than it is for us to cry in front of them. It was a really out of character thing for him to do as well, but he has been acting a bit sensitive recently. :S

It's weird to think something as simple as therapy can help. But trust me it really really can. Don't back down from knowing that you need this help.

Did you break up with him?<br />
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Well if not...don't be worried. Everyone goes South now and again, and there is nothing wrong with a man crying.