"Are you religious?"
"Umm, I have a really strong faith. I have a relationship."
"So you're religious."
"No. I don't put stock in my actions, or do anything regularly, or religiously, to make me think I'm getting any closer to God. I have a relationship and a faith. I do what comes naturally and trust that if something is wrong, I will feel it is wrong."
Multiple conversations I have had go this way. And I believe it's true with all my heart.