Free At LastMy ex- husband has BPD and we are now officially divorced. Living with him was so difficult and for much of our 20 plus years together I blamed myself almost as much as he blamed me. A great therapist helped me see the light. He cheated on me repeatedly and yet insisted one day I agree he was a wonderful husband. He screamed at me in public, berated and abused me. Of course, he was never responsible. My shrink says I have very low expectations for relationships and do not trust. Yup! It will take time and work to get him out of my soul and brain. I am glad I get a do-over and wish I'd left sooner. I hate that I exposed my son to this toxic creature.
Cal765 51-55 2 Responses 0 May 3, 2012